Please stop calling those who believe homosexuality is a choice bigots. A bigot is someone who hates someone else for who they are. Not all people who believe homosexuality is a choice hate those who choose it.
There is a logical fallacy in your argument here - when I have more time, I will hunt it down. In fact, now that I look at your statement here more closely, you may have utilized two logical fallacies.
People who hate homosexuals merely because they are homosexuals, are bigots. That is a simple fact, and I will label such people as bigots whenever I see them spouting their bigotry. Arguing that homosexuality is a choice is a convenient rationalization to justify bigotry against homosexuals.
You say, "Not all people who believe homosexuality is a choice hate those who choose it." I find that a rather strange statement. I have yet to see a person who is not opposed to homosexuality who also claims that gender preference is a choice. The only reason for arguing that it is a choice, is to then proceed to the next logical step, which is an argument that, since it is a choice, those who choose it are morally corrupt, because, underlying all of the preliminary argument on this point, is the belief that homosexuality is wrong.
Where do you stand on this issue? Do you think that homosexuality is wrong? Do you feel that gays should be allowed to marry? Do you feel that gays should be afforded all of the rights and privileges afforded to heterosexual married couples? And, at the same time, do you think that homosexuality is a choice?
You are entirely incorrect on this George. It is ENTIRELY possible to oppose homosexuality without hating those who choose to be homosexuals. I oppose bank robbery, I don't hate bank robbers.
Yes, it is my belief that homosexuality is a choice. Yes I realize there is an entire argument that can be made either way, and I doubt we would influence each other either way on that one, so let's just avoid that for now, shall we.
Now, understanding that I believe homosexuality is a choice and a choice that I don't condone, you should also know that I do not hate those who choose to be homosexual, nor do I condone taking away any of their rights for doing so.
Marriage is tricky, I don't think the government should have a damned thing to do with marriage. I think that some independent entity should be allowed to marry gays if they so wish. My Church certainly wouldn't sanctify such a marriage, but I doubt that sanctity would matter to gays anyway. I certainly don't care if a gay church recognizes my marriage.
I am FOR allowing them to serve in the military, I don't see it hindering their ability to do their jobs.
So , I have conclusively proven that a person can believe that homosexuality is a choice without being bigoted about it. I sincerely doubt I am alone. In fact I know I am not.
So, I ask again, kindly stop referring to anyone who believes that homosexuality is a choice as a bigot.
Oh, I forgot to address one issue. I DO absolutely believe that for tax and other governmental issues a gay marriage should be recognized equally as a straight marriage. Contract law doesn't care about the sexual orientation of the parties involved.