To have sex or not have sex is everyone's choice. If a human is made from that sex that should NOT be a choice. Do you get a choice AFTER you drink and drive and kill someone? Nope. You DO get a choice to drink then drive..
Are you going to throw a woman in prison and force her to carry a baby to term she doesn't want?
Would you throw someone in prison for abusing and ultimately killing a toddler that she never wanted in the first place?
Child abuse is child abuse; and murder is murder, no matter the age of the victim. I find it one of the most shameful things about our culture that we so willingly tolerate and even embrace the abuse and murder of the youngest, most innocent, and most defenseless of children. Any rational society would rightfully recognize this as among the most serious of crimes, calling for the most serious of punishments.
And no, not prison for murdering a child. That should be an automatic death penalty for all who willingly had any part in it.