... or not?
Harmless? or dangerous?
what do you PERSONALLY think? This is not a "right or wrong" answer.
Personal opinions only.... along with any reasoning ... thanks!
Is this about that cheating website, Ashley Madison?
Not OK... or not?
Harmless? or dangerous?
what do you PERSONALLY think? This is not a "right or wrong" answer.
Personal opinions only.... along with any reasoning ... thanks!
Reminds me of my 2nd wife she would get jealous if I watched anything but the history channel always accusing me of lusting....you know why I divorced the *****? You guessed it, she was the one cheating not me.
... or not?
Harmless? or dangerous?
what do you PERSONALLY think? This is not a "right or wrong" answer.
Personal opinions only.... along with any reasoning ... thanks!
Is this about that cheating website, Ashley Madison?
Who is Ashley Madison (is that a website?) - well I guess the answer is no since I have never heard of it!
No, I just mean coming on here and playfully flirting with people - let's give an example:
You are having a discussion about something else, and you get into a 1 on 1 banter with someone of the opposite sex, and it turns into playful silly conversation and things like "Oh, you're so cute!" and smilie faces etc.... if you're MARRIED, should you even be doing that ?
what is she even talking about?... or not?
Harmless? or dangerous?
what do you PERSONALLY think? This is not a "right or wrong" answer.
Personal opinions only.... along with any reasoning ... thanks!
Is this about that cheating website, Ashley Madison?
Who is Ashley Madison (is that a website?) - well I guess the answer is no since I have never heard of it!
No, I just mean coming on here and playfully flirting with people - let's give an example:
You are having a discussion about something else, and you get into a 1 on 1 banter with someone of the opposite sex, and it turns into playful silly conversation and things like "Oh, you're so cute!" and smilie faces etc.... if you're MARRIED, should you even be doing that ?
If it's on the open forum stuff like that I don't see as an issue. Take it to private messages though, and it is.
... or not?
Harmless? or dangerous?
what do you PERSONALLY think? This is not a "right or wrong" answer.
Personal opinions only.... along with any reasoning ... thanks!
sexy half naked female avatars do have certain effects on male imaginations... Just sayin... or not?
Harmless? or dangerous?
what do you PERSONALLY think? This is not a "right or wrong" answer.
Personal opinions only.... along with any reasoning ... thanks!
It can be both. One of those involved might just be joking around but the other one involved might infer it differently. There can be confusion that leads to unwanted trouble in one or more forms.
I am not in favor of it at all because a person who might feel un-fulfilled or needy at home whether single or in a relationship, might start depending upon the attention or excitement it brings to them and put forth less effort in their current real-life relationship or into pursuing a real one, should they be single and looking.
I have had married male posters offer me their email addresses asking me to email them anytime. I knew them well enough to know they weren't flirting with me, but I never did engage. I didn't want the cyber-relationship to become personal. I didn't/don't have a need for that and could foresee the potential problems it might create, should I have had.
In the past, PM rep comments, joking around while thanking a person, could also be taken out of context should the wrong ( insecure ) person see them. That did happen once. lol
Best to treat another they way you want to be treated. I wouldn't want my man flirting ( as I define that ) with anyone on board, so I wouldn't do that to him.
I think the female form is great, and I wish all good looking women would walk around in string bikinis every day. Well at least when they are around me, but I tend to get jealous when other guys see my girls so that only goes for other women not my wife or daughter etc.. :-|
Several women on this board (one is gone) consistently did the sexy pic thing. The one who is gone would say things like...."I do the sexy pics for myself because I like pretty pictures."
Ah...okay.
Of course there is nothing wrong with it but the motivations for doing so are interesting. I think the woman who is gone used the pics to either elicit a reaction from both men or women, garner attention, or to control people in a weird way.
She wanted to be the head mean girl...the top ***** at USMB. I think she saw the sexy avatars as a way to accomplish her goal. It was very manipulative and a little bit sad imho. I think the real people behind the fake pictures are probably a lot more interesting than the image they were trying to project.
Nothing wrong with it.. but nonetheless, showing off the nearly naked form of a female as an avatar is going to be seen as a flirtation by men who have over active imaginations. Now if a guy does it... it just means I like this pic. Just sayin.
Several women on this board (one is gone) consistently did the sexy pic thing. The one who is gone would say things like...."I do the sexy pics for myself because I like pretty pictures."
Ah...okay.
Of course there is nothing wrong with it but the motivations for doing so are interesting. I think the woman who is gone used the pics to either elicit a reaction from both men or women, garner attention, or to control people in a weird way.
She wanted to be the head mean girl...the top ***** at USMB. I think she saw the sexy avatars as a way to accomplish her goal. It was very manipulative and a little bit sad imho. I think the real people behind the fake pictures are probably a lot more interesting than the image they were trying to project.
I think she has a very sexy nature and was just having fun with her avi's, just as I and not unlike others who post avis they like and relate to for various reasons. I knew her well and she really does have a very sexy nature. Most avatars make a statement. They are an extension of the poster. It's not like it's a big deal. If you think it is because it's an attention-grabber, one could say some people seek attention by posting many OPs? I don't get what is wrong with attention regardless of it's form. In one way or another we all benefit. from one-another because of our variety.
... or not?
Harmless? or dangerous?
what do you PERSONALLY think? This is not a "right or wrong" answer.
Personal opinions only.... along with any reasoning ... thanks!
Nothing wrong with it.. but nonetheless, showing off the nearly naked form of a female as an avatar is going to be seen as a flirtation by men who have over active imaginations. Now if a guy does it... it just means I like this pic. Just sayin.
Several women on this board (one is gone) consistently did the sexy pic thing. The one who is gone would say things like...."I do the sexy pics for myself because I like pretty pictures."
Ah...okay.
Of course there is nothing wrong with it but the motivations for doing so are interesting. I think the woman who is gone used the pics to either elicit a reaction from both men or women, garner attention, or to control people in a weird way.
She wanted to be the head mean girl...the top ***** at USMB. I think she saw the sexy avatars as a way to accomplish her goal. It was very manipulative and a little bit sad imho. I think the real people behind the fake pictures are probably a lot more interesting than the image they were trying to project.
I think she has a very sexy nature and was just having fun with her avi's, just as I and not unlike others who post avis they like and relate to for various reasons. I knew her well and she really does have a very sexy nature. Most avatars make a statement. They are an extension of the poster. It's not like it's a big deal. If you think it is because it's an attention-grabber, one could say some people seek attention by posting many OPs? I don't get what is wrong with attention regardless of it's form. In one way or another we all benefit. from one-another because of our variety.
