If you haven't seen it, you need to see Dallas Buyer's Club.
I think both sides need to cease fire here.
I don't have anything against gays at all. If someone is subject to termination for donating to a political cause then certainly someone could be fired for being gay.
When two lesbians demanded that I paint their wedding portrait I threw them out saying "you don't get to tell me what to do." That's my beef with gays. If someone doesn't want to go to their wedding or put their name on a product that's the end of it. Gays shouldn't be able to dictate that the business person change their behavior to something gays prefer.
I won that case because in the end those two lesbians didn't get to tell me what to do and I was absolutely within my rights to tell them to get the **** out of my shop