Bonzi
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If you are not paying your mortgage, they have a right to....or is there another scenario?I can get that... And its a great philosophy on victimhood. And prcisely why, when one would see you as prey, you prove yourself the hunter instead. Make an example of those who would wromg you. It makes such things less likely to happen in the future.Do you not love yourself?
Hmmm.... I like myself. I guess I just consider myself to have a very good life, and, I'm not a victim. Other people trying to hurt me doesn't make me a victim. Only I allow myself to be a victim. I have a choice to fight or flee, and, sometimes it's better for myself and my mental well being to flee. That is not true for everyone, and I get that
I guess I'm more concerned with my own peace of mind than changing others or teaching them a lesson. The sooner "negative" is out of my life the better. Working on revenge only keeps the negative there longer. Especially if they then choose to wrong you again and the pattern repeats...
In this case, what do you mean by peace of mind? You said you would fight back if they wrong your child. For example they take over his farm then chase you all away. Then you can't let go or move on unless you have a second farm. But by looking for that peace you show them to take your second farm away too. So then what keeps the negative longer, the fighting back or the peace of mind?