I'm not sure what you mean here.
I've already said that I don't condone what the shop owner did. I've also said that I am basically on the fence as to whether or not they had the right to do it. Part of my problem is that you and others arguing against the shop owners have avoided the elephant in the room: The people who called the shop and were verbally abusive and issued threats to them and their family.
So let me ask you a few questions. And these are not rhetorical questions, I would actually like you to answer them if you're willing.
1.) Are you okay with people like that advancing the cause for gay rights in such a way?
2.) Do you not see "We're coming for you and your family" as hateful?
3.) Do you not see that calling someone a "fake Christian" is as judgmental as the shop owner's behavior?
What I mean is, and what we've been talking about for a few posts now, is about being able to deny service to people.
If, in your own country, you're refused from service in one shop, and it becomes legal, then you'll be refused by more shops.
69% of people are Christian. 2% Jewish, 1% Muslim. Imagine that you get refused service in 72% of shops. Imagine the area you live in you get refused service in 100% of shops.
You're a second class citizen. Just as black people were with segregation. Hence the segregation comment.
The point with the verbal abuse is that it wouldn't have happened had the owners kept within the law. The gay people probably know that the law isn't going to do much about it either.
Do I condone what they did? Sure. But sometimes there are times when people get angry, when they want revenge, when they feel they have treated in such a way by a bunch of bigots and they go do stuff like this.
Like I said, if you have this bigotry legalized, then people are going to take things into their own hands.
So the answer is to stop the bigotry, make it illegal, haul those who break the law into court and treat them like everyone else who breaks the law, then you won't put others in a position where they want to do something like those gay people.