A good friend of mine was in a horrible motorcycle accident the other night. He's got broken ribs, broken neck, brain bleed and is on a ventilator. There's been zero brain activity since Sunday night. Sadly, if there's no improvement today they're going to disconnect him from life support. It's painful to think of a world without my buddy Forrest.
In the biker community, there's an unspoken understanding that the risks are higher than for those who ride in "cages" and, while those risks are readily accepted, it still hurts like Hell when you lose a brother.
So, if you ride, be safe out there and keep the shiny side up. If you drive, just look twice. Bikers can be hard to see...
I am so sorry for the loss of your friend.
I have ridden motorcycles since I was 13, which was 63 years ago. On the road, I've always ridden a Harley. I have been blessed, I've only laid one down twice in all those years with minor injuries.
Studies have shown the driver of a car does not "see" a motorcycle. They are looking for a car, so they see cats but many do not "SEE" the motorcycle. It makes sense to me at least. I read that decades ago and it made a difference in my road riding style. I approached every intersection knowing the car approaching or stopped, is going to pull out in front of me. I left a good car length between me and any stopped car and instantly looked for an escape route if I saw someone coming behind me too fast.
I raced amateur Enduros (races usually over 100 miles following arrows over an unknown course with hills, logs, water, mud whatever and I raced motocross. That's where I made up for my record on the road, someone told me that if I didn't fall once in a while, I wasn't going fast enough. That's also where I got on a first-name basis with my orthopedic surgeon!
We all know the hazards but happily ride.