I was asked if I had ever "engaged in homosexual activity". I had not.
you served while being gay before it was legal. You served dishonestly and you know it end of story.
My great, great grandfather served in a Michigan Regiment in the Civil War when he was 17. As was common in the day, he wrote the number 18 on the bottom of his shoe. When they asked his age, he said "I stand over 18." That was good enough for them.
My brother went to the Naval Academy. He finished in the top 10% of his class and as such was handed his diploma by Dan Quayle. The P and VP alternate each year who gives diplomas to the top 10% at Army and Navy.
Top 10% of Naval Academy class means you write your own ticket. He went nuclear subs. He was in training in Orlando, and they came and took him out of class and told him he was being kicked out of the program. He had honestly admitted he'd tried pot in high school on his application and whatever Admiral ran the program apparently had a policy that if you've ever tried drugs you can't ever have tried any drug.
Had they told him when he applied, he had endless other opportunities with his class rank. However, at this point he ended up at the bottom of the list behind even ROTC people and had to go surface warfare, the bottom choice. He served the minimum and left. He is the sort of person we need in the military. Honest, believes in his country and the mission.
I have no issue with Seawytch saying a technical truth. I'm guessing no one would support her more than my brother who had he lied like most people who had tried pot in high school did would have been fine.