I totally agree. And thank you for saying that.
I find this almost impossible to believe. I see domestic violence first hand - well, second hand. I am a public defender. The police in our area vigorously pursue domestic violence cases. Woman complains, guy gets taken in. There don't even have to be visible injuries.
When and in what city, did this (police just letting the guy go free) happen to you?
George, this was back in the late 70s, early 80s in Anchorage, Alaska. Things were different then. Now the law has changed and the police are obligated to arrest the guy if the woman says he hit her. But back then, it wasn't so.
One time I had called the police because he was terrorizing me. Two officers came, an old guy and really young guy. I could tell they were afraid of my "boyfriend." So they were standing there and I kept saying, "I am willing to press charges...I will press charges." They still didn't arrest him. Then he says to me, right in front of the two cops, "I'm going to kick you in the kidneys until you piss blood!" The cops still just stood there! And then he turned and ran away. They did not pursue him. True story. I sat up all night with a loaded .357 magnum pointed at the door in case he came back and broke the door down and tried to kill me for calling the cops on him. Unfortunately, he didn't come back.
Oh, and by the way...if a guy says his girlfriend hit him, they are obligated to arrest her, also and charge with domestic violence. It goes both ways. Ask me how I know. So when my new boyfriend and I had a major disagreement and I was leaving and he tried to restrain me, I struggled with him. He called the cops, hoping they would help to calm me down. Yeah, right. I had been drinking, he had not, so I was automatically the problem. The cops asked my boyfriend if I had hit him and he said yes (he didn't realize it was a trick question...he really didn't). They arrested me and I was charged with domestic violence. I was so heartbroken I didn't bother with a lawyer and just pleaded no contest. So i have a domestic violence conviction and can never own a gun again for the rest of my life.
Ironic, huh? Especially when a guy smashed my face up so bad one time that I was unrecognizable, and he got away without even a slap on the hand.
My new boyfriend is now my husband, we've been together for a total of 22 years with not a single other incident. He learned his lesson and knows better than to trust cops to "help."