I've been working with a therapist who was offered to me by the police. Was it a wise decision to work with her?

[shockedcanadian]

I wouldn't let somebody beat and piss on me. I would have kicked her to the curb and tried out one of those other broads that propositioned you. Like the one in your air guitar duo.

Err, lol, I guess...

 

[Donald H]

If she saw me leaving (say, two months.ago) she would be unpredictable. Might threaten me, might not care at all, it depends in her moo or if she is in too much debt. Today I don't feel she cares much, it's impossible to know though since we can't communicate.

Don't leave your home and don't leave your wife. She loves you and she's all you have now.

I advise you to stop this exchange on this board.

 

[okfine]

Don't leave your home and don't leave your wife. She loves you and she's all you have now.

I advise you to stop this exchange on this board.

Misery loves company, right Donny?

 

[surada]

Passive aggressive how? As for self righteous, she physically abused me not the other way around. You don't what I've been through and she threatened me into paralysis so that others wouldn't know. I cannot tell a lie, I'm trying to get into heaven

You're a martyr. You can't get to heaven by being abused. Be a man.

 

[shockedcanadian]

Don't leave your home and don't leave your wife. She loves you and she's all you have now.

I advise you to stop this exchange on this board.

Why stop the exchange? We are just sharing ideas. I care about my wife, it's never been a bigger challenge though,.unfairly as it were. Americans have been following my plight for years, I am an honest and open book.

 

[okfine]

Piss her off some more and run over her laptop. May not be a permanent fix for her [at home] gambling addiction. That may only be temporary. Or, you can wait and do nothing and end up with the same.

 

[shockedcanadian]

Piss her off some more and run over her laptop. May not be a permanent fix for her [at home] gambling addiction. That may only be temporary. Or, you can wait and do nothing and end up with the same.

She engages in those sorts of abuses against me, I don't/won't do that to her.

 

[Man of Ethics]

You're a martyr. You can't get to heaven by being abused. Be a man.

Imagine being abused with Laws of the Land being on the side of your abuser. This is situation in which many men find themselves in.

 

[Man of Ethics]

Get a male therapist. More likely than not a female therapist will simply gaslight you into thinking that you are at fault...

It depends more on therapist's worldview then on their gender.

Some extraordinary women do defend male victims of abuse.

 

[surada]

It depends more on therapist's worldview then on their gender.

Some extraordinary women do defend male victims of abuse.

Sorry, he never stops whining, blubbering about how religious he is and playing the victim. He's extremely manipulative.

 

[Man of Ethics]

............... in which many men find themselves.
bad habits are hard to break. LOL

It has nothing to do with habits. It can happen to you. The Laws are extremely biased.

 

[surada]

shockedcanadian

So why are you unemployed?

 

[Man of Ethics]

Sorry, he never stops whining, blubbering about how religious he is and playing the victim. He's extremely manipulative.

Most people would be broken by being severely abused for a long time.

 

[surada]

Most people would be broken by being severely abused for a long time.

Most people would have left ages ago instead of yapping about God and loyalty.

 

[Man of Ethics]

Anyone would become completely broken under similar circumstances.

Many men would be shocked to find out that Law of the Land treats them as almost non-persons.

Not all women are abusive, but those who are are empowered by the Laws.

 

[Man of Ethics]

Most people would have left ages ago instead of yapping about God and loyalty.

Many abused women stay for years, even though the Laws are 100% on their side. Leaving abuse is not easy.

 

[surada]

Anyone would become completely broken under similar circumstances.

Many men would be shocked to find out that Law of the Land treats them as almost non-persons.

Not all women are abusive, but those who are are empowered by the Laws.

If he's not going to stand up for himself, who is?

 

[Man of Ethics]

If he's not going to stand up for himself, who is?

I hope he escapes, but the situation is extremely difficult.

 

[Calypso Jones]

Provided or recommended. Does she share what she learns from you? Yeah. I'd be suspicious

 

[Man of Ethics]

Provided or recommended. Does she share what she learns from you? Yeah. I'd be suspicious

He must find out the terms of confidentiality.