I never suggest that racism doesn't exist, just that pretending it permeates everything is bullshit. I don't think you expect anything from me, past the point you think your race should make a difference to anything I may think or do. I don't think blacks are charity cases, I simply reject the idea I am required to think they are to fit your view of how things were, are or should be. The only thing I object to is the idea you may or may not think the fact you are black means a damn thing to me or should to anyone else.
Is that clear enough for ya? Because if you object to that, you want something.
This is one of the more bizarre conversations I've had here. I honestly do not understand why you think that I am parading around my "blackness" or that it means anything other than what it does. Most people don't care that I'm black, most don't have an issue with it, some like it, the racists don't. Most of what I've achieved and obtained is not
because I'm black but because I out performed my competitors. In most of my classes, jobs, training, etc. I was generally the only black person, oftentimes the only female and in most cases the only black female.
You think I want something from you? What could that possibly be since I have no idea who you are? I guess your priviledge isolates you from the fact that racism does indeed permeate most aspects of the lives of African Americans. But what most of you often overlook is that in spite of all of the obstacles put in our way, all the times we've been forced to start over in one respect or another, we're still here and still progressing. I think THAT bothers some more than any of the "issues" that black people are alleged to have. That and the fact that racism is unlawful, it's psychological abuse and those that engage in it while pretending it's not happening (a form of gaslighting) appear to want to be able to act with impunity with no challenge from their "victims".
You've been very presumptous with your view of me as have most others here on the board. I guess it's just beyond your comprehension that there might actually be a very valid reason for gathering evidence of the racial opinions expressed on internet message boards. It's an open and anonymous forum and as you can see no one has any qualms about saying what they really feel no matter how bigoted or stupid and God forbid anyone to disagree or challenge their opinions.