no authority on the planet earth gets to arbitrarily define "marriage remains the union of a man and a woman," so for you to think thats somehow objective and not some arbitrary opinion is giggle worthy and its also no longer the precedent in your very own Country. Society has now advanced past "your" opinion and has adopted a new one. Suck it up, pippy.
So, essentially, your argument is... we can arbitrarily change whatever any word means and make it mean whatever we need for it to mean in order to accommodate what we desire. I kind of think that general policy MIGHT pose a problem down the road somewhere. I also think... unless we've redefined what "free speech" means, I have the right to disagree with this policy and warn people that it's an idiotic idea.
Oh, so your whole argument is not against homosexuals being allowed to get married....your whole beef is that the word "marriage" only applies to man and a woman......and homosexuals need to find another word to describe their union......I get it......
so, why don't you do like Sarah Palin and coin a new word for them. .......how about "smarriage"? That sounds like a good word.
In essence, yes... My argument has always been regarding the importance of traditional marriage and what many people have a fundamental connection to in a cultural as well as a religious way. I don't feel that is being respected and I think that is intentional. This issue is not really about gay couples having the same rights as straight couples, it's about tearing down moral and traditional values. It's a big steamy dump on the Church. It's a chance for Socialist Seculars to flex some political muscle and act righteous in the face of indignity.
You still don't get it? Nobody cares what you feel or what you think in this matter. It has been settled. You can whine and complain all you want, but unless you can get the majority of Americans to agree with you, you're just going to get an ulcer. You have expressed your reasons for not accepting ssm, and some of us have countered with our reasons, but in the end it doesn't matter. It is over and done.
Well I think it remains to be seen if this is "over and done" and you should be careful underestimating your opposition. I think a lot of people do care what I think and share my viewpoint. I don't think you're going to find this any more "settled and over" than abortion. In fact, this is going to be challenged much more rigorously because it effects other rights of other people.
My personal view is that government shouldn't be telling us what we can call marriage. It doesn't matter which kind, it shouldn't be up to the government to decide, it should be up to US! I suggested, years ago, that we should replace "marriage licenses" with simple two-party contracts, if there is some need for such defining of domestic partnership. This would benefit any two people who want to use it, regardless of their intimate relations. I have no problem with that and I don't think most people would. I see that as a solution to the problem which respects all sides and resolves the issue to the best it can be solved for all.
Government isn't telling you what you can call marriage. The Supreme Court just told us that people of the same sex are allowed to get married. You can refrain from calling their marriage a "marriage" if it makes you feel better. You are offering homosexuals the same kind of crap that racist people wanted to offer blacks.....separate but equal. They want their union to be recognized as "marriage" and the Supreme Court who goes by the Constitution and is way more qualified in defining "law" saw that it was unconstitutional to deny them that right.
So it looks like your idea of "debate" is to simply contradict anything I say. Formulating the argument of "nuh-uh!" must take so much brain power! Perhaps you should take a break and go have a banana?
Yes, the SCOTUS essentially redefined marriage. This is going to be a problem because of two groups of people. Those opposed, who will continue to fight this in every way they can. And, those who are totally for it and think it should extend much further.
The SCOTUS
did not go by the Constitution, and that's the whole problem here. The Constitution explicitly says things like this are the right of the people and states to decide. The case should have been turned down for lack of standing. It wasn't, they made a bad ruling, and now we'll face the consequences. You think it's over, I think it's just begun. t!