Ok, so you're not a commie,you're more like a Mennonite. Which is sort of like an olden days commie, or a modern day commune hippie, with the one positive difference..they aren't atheists.
Communism has historically persecuted the religious. Distributism was technically created by Catholics in accordance with that church's social views.
Communism enshrines the state as the highest authority. Distributism is wrapped up with Communitarianism, which gives that honor to the community.
Under Communism, the state owns your labor. Under Distributism, you own your labor.
Under Communism, you are employed and paid by the state. Under Distributism, you may choose to work for yourself or another as you see fit.
Under Communism, the economy is controlled by the state's central planning committees. Under Distributism, the economy is allowed to run organically within protective regulations.
Under Communism, the state rules every aspect of society. Under Distributism, subsidiary is one of the most important concepts.
For what it's worth, I get along exceptionally well with Mennonites, as well as traditionalist Mormons and Catholics/Eastern Orthodox. It's always been a sad fact of history to me that the United Order didn't work out for the Mormons.