Is It OK to Deny Sex to your Spouse?

[TheGreatGatsby]

I went for "other" because of the verb "deny". That implies it's a commodity to be traded for a price. Sex is supposed to be a consensual gig. If it's done as a favor, such as "I'll mow your lawn while you're on vacation", then it has no meaning.

There's no subject you can't make utterly boring.

 

[danielpalos]

... is it ever OK to totally cut your spouse off from sex?
Is it even OK to say "no" more often than yes?
What if your spouse has a high sex drive and you don't.....

Actually, no sex is grounds for divorce.

It's called "abandonment".

what if it's bad quality sex?

women should just inform their men, that ignorance of human sexuality is no longer any excuse for being bad in bed, in modern times.

then,

text him your favorite links to your favorite forms of Usury on your favorite porn sites.

 

[Buzz Jenkins]

Actually, no sex is grounds for divorce.

It's called "abandonment".

what if it's bad quality sex?

Um..just telling you the law, dude.

dudette (why does everyone think I'm a guy!?)

Latent homosexual ideation.

Very Freudian. Isn't that mostly sexual? Not likely to come through in typed word... I don't think that's it....

Jesus ******* Christ, you can really drain the life out of anything, can't you, Bonzi? It was a ******* joke, you humorless ******. It is no wonder you are alwAys on here talking about sex - you significant other has gotten fed up with you, hadn't he?

You are a wet blanket, honey. You are school in summertime. You are the alarm clock during a wet dream. Lighten the **** up, you overbearing ****!

 

[Muhammed]

... is it ever OK to totally cut your spouse off from sex?
Is it even OK to say "no" more often than yes?
What if your spouse has a high sex drive and you don't.....

Actually, no sex is grounds for divorce.

It's called "abandonment".

what if it's bad quality sex?

Um..just telling you the law, dude.

(why does everyone think I'm a guy!?)

You don't express yourself in a feminine manner. It's more typical of a dude than a chick.

 

[Tresha91203]

... is it ever OK to totally cut your spouse off from sex?
Is it even OK to say "no" more often than yes?
What if your spouse has a high sex drive and you don't.....

Actually, no sex is grounds for divorce.

It's called "abandonment".

what if it's bad quality sex?

Um..just telling you the law, dude.

dudette (why does everyone think I'm a guy!?)

it's your lack of likability...

Hey! I didn't hold that against you and have come to adore you. ♥
Bonzi is on her way to a piece of my heart now that LybyrylMydya poofed on us.

 

[Moonglow]

Actually, no sex is grounds for divorce.

It's called "abandonment".

what if it's bad quality sex?

Um..just telling you the law, dude.

dudette (why does everyone think I'm a guy!?)

it's your lack of likability...

Hey! I didn't hold that against you and have come to adore you. ♥
Bonzi is on her way to a piece of my heart now that LybyrylMydya poofed on us.

I have a good reason for un-likability...I was born that whey...

 

[Tresha91203]

what if it's bad quality sex?

Um..just telling you the law, dude.

dudette (why does everyone think I'm a guy!?)

it's your lack of likability...

Hey! I didn't hold that against you and have come to adore you. ♥
Bonzi is on her way to a piece of my heart now that LybyrylMydya poofed on us.

I have a good reason for un-likability...I was born that whey...

Don't think I didn't notice you tweak my OCD. You're lucky I love you ... and even luckier I don't know where you sleep.

 

[Pogo]

... is it ever OK to totally cut your spouse off from sex?
Is it even OK to say "no" more often than yes?
What if your spouse has a high sex drive and you don't.....

Actually, no sex is grounds for divorce.

It's called "abandonment".

what if it's bad quality sex?

Um..just telling you the law, dude.

(why does everyone think I'm a guy!?)

You don't express yourself in a feminine manner. It's more typical of a dude than a chick.

I don't get that impression at all. Quite the opposite.

 

[Pogo]

Actually, no sex is grounds for divorce.

It's called "abandonment".

what if it's bad quality sex?

Um..just telling you the law, dude.

dudette (why does everyone think I'm a guy!?)

it's your lack of likability...

Hey! I didn't hold that against you and have come to adore you. ♥
Bonzi is on her way to a piece of my heart now that LybyrylMydya poofed on us.

What ever happened to LM? She was a hooot.

 

[Tuatara]

If one partner is denying sex to the other partner then they should try counselling or therapy if they can't communicate the problem on their own. If the resistance of sex still continues then I feel the one not allowing the sex should give permission to the other one to seek sexual gratification elsewhere.

 

[Muhammed]

Actually, no sex is grounds for divorce.

It's called "abandonment".

what if it's bad quality sex?

Um..just telling you the law, dude.

(why does everyone think I'm a guy!?)

You don't express yourself in a feminine manner. It's more typical of a dude than a chick.

I don't get that impression at all. Quite the opposite.

I think I've been around the block a few more times than you. I also have six daughters. Five of them are probably older or more mature than you.

EDIT: From experience, I know how young women behave.

 

[Bonzi]

... is it ever OK to totally cut your spouse off from sex?
Is it even OK to say "no" more often than yes?
What if your spouse has a high sex drive and you don't.....

Actually, no sex is grounds for divorce.

It's called "abandonment".

what if it's bad quality sex?

women should just inform their men, that ignorance of human sexuality is no longer any excuse for being bad in bed, in modern times.

then,

text him your favorite links to your favorite forms of Usury on your favorite porn sites.

that's a big assumption! You think someone bad in bed would frequent porn sites?
Do you think EVERYONE frequents porn sites?

 

[Bonzi]

what if it's bad quality sex?

Um..just telling you the law, dude.

dudette (why does everyone think I'm a guy!?)

Latent homosexual ideation.

Very Freudian. Isn't that mostly sexual? Not likely to come through in typed word... I don't think that's it....

Jesus ******* Christ, you can really drain the life out of anything, can't you, Bonzi? It was a ******* joke, you humorless ******. It is no wonder you are alwAys on here talking about sex - you significant other has gotten fed up with you, hadn't he?

You are a wet blanket, honey. You are school in summertime. You are the alarm clock during a wet dream. Lighten the **** up, you overbearing ****!

Actually, my husband wants to be around me ALL the time. I have no idea why....

 

[Esmeralda]

... is it ever OK to totally cut your spouse off from sex?
Is it even OK to say "no" more often than yes?
What if your spouse has a high sex drive and you don't.....

What if your marriage is just totally fucked up and you have to ask these kind of questions?

 

[Bonzi]

Actually, no sex is grounds for divorce.

It's called "abandonment".

what if it's bad quality sex?

Um..just telling you the law, dude.

dudette (why does everyone think I'm a guy!?)

it's your lack of likability...

Hey! I didn't hold that against you and have come to adore you. ♥
Bonzi is on her way to a piece of my heart now that LybyrylMydya poofed on us.

I don't know who that is, but, I'm guessing it's a huge insult It's okay, I can take it.
Nice to "meet" you.

 

[Bonzi]

... is it ever OK to totally cut your spouse off from sex?
Is it even OK to say "no" more often than yes?
What if your spouse has a high sex drive and you don't.....

What if your marriage is just totally fucked up and you have to ask these kind of questions?

Well if (1) is true, so be it. And I don't HAVE to ask, I want to and like to ask.
What of it?

 

[Esmeralda]

Depends on what you look like

Depends on what YOU look like.

 

[Bonzi]

... is it ever OK to totally cut your spouse off from sex?
Is it even OK to say "no" more often than yes?
What if your spouse has a high sex drive and you don't.....

Actually, no sex is grounds for divorce.

It's called "abandonment".

what if it's bad quality sex?

Um..just telling you the law, dude.

(why does everyone think I'm a guy!?)

You don't express yourself in a feminine manner. It's more typical of a dude than a chick.

Not the first time I have been told that, even of people IRL.
Probably the product of growing up very close to my brother.
Or just being intelligent.......

While the women were in the kitchen cooking and the men were in the living room drinking beer and watching TV, guess where I was. I'm not stupid.

 

[Esmeralda]

... is it ever OK to totally cut your spouse off from sex?
Is it even OK to say "no" more often than yes?
What if your spouse has a high sex drive and you don't.....

What if your marriage is just totally fucked up and you have to ask these kind of questions?

Well if (1) is true, so be it. And I don't HAVE to ask, I want to and like to ask.
What of it?

Smoke, fire, duh

 

[Bonzi]

Actually, no sex is grounds for divorce.

It's called "abandonment".

what if it's bad quality sex?

Um..just telling you the law, dude.

(why does everyone think I'm a guy!?)

You don't express yourself in a feminine manner. It's more typical of a dude than a chick.

I don't get that impression at all. Quite the opposite.

It's easy to say what he said when women don't "fall in line" with their own preconceived set of expectations....
... and thank you, even if you are just being nice