mdk, if you are against blackballing people and destroying people's lives then you need to tell your fellow gays that, it does no good to tell me. Evil is being done in your name.
Bullshit. I am not responsible for the actions of any other gays then you are responsible for the actions of any other Christians.
If the Catholic Church does something I feel is wrong, I do feel responsible. That is why I've spoken out against the fact that the Catholic Church, for many years, did not adequately address the problem of priests molesting children. In fact, this issue has alienated me from the Catholic Church to the point that I rarely attend Mass.
If I feel responsible for what the Catholic Church does, why do you not feel responsible for what gays are doing in your name, destroying people's lives and careers who opposed same sex marriage. Why do you not speak out against this injustice? Do you think injustice is not your problem?