Well good news, there won't be a problem then with my husband going in with me. Problem solved.
as long as nobody is molesting anybody, then there is no real problem.
the problem is in the minds of the phobics...
I'm a late-middle-aged man. I make no pretense, and have no appearance, of being anything other than a man.
Would you be OK with me being present in a women's restroom, locker room, or dressing facility, while you are using that facility?
Would it really make a difference, if I put on a dress and a wig, and claimed to “identify as a woman”, even though you could clearly tell I was a man?
Would it make a difference if I was well-enough disguised as a woman that you couldn't tell for sure that I was really a man?