I'd personally be more interested in hearing what you think this "disconnect" is. Is it REALLY between leftist (sorry, but there IS a difference between liberals and people on the left) views and our perceptions of them, or is it between what they PRESENT their views as and our perceptions?
No offense, and I'm not going to automatically include you in this, but the fact is that a lot of people on the left lie, both to others and themselves, about what they're really supporting.
It's difficult to say too much in response here without being more specific, but I think it might be meaningful that you included the idea that people are lying
to themselves. I think there's a pretty important distinction between knowingly telling lies and being deluded (assuming you don't mind my characterizing people lying to themselves as delusional). The first is acting in bad faith, in an attempt to gain power, manipulate, or to achieve some end, presumably. The latter really just reduces to saying that the person is
wrong, even if it adds the connotation of being
inexcusably wrong.
And I think the distinction actually comes pretty close to the disconnect I had in mind. You don't just think that leftists are wrong in some pedestrian sense, you seem to think they are dishonestly,
immorally wrong. Whether because they are arguing in bad faith or are just somehow morally culpable in an especially strong sense. But that's not my experience of people on the left at all. My experience is that they (and myself, to be sure) may have all the same kinds of faults that people invariably do, but we tend to be pretty earnest about our beliefs and values.
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In fact, I think most people, not just leftists, are usually pretty earnest in their beliefs, if not always in their conversations. When I read some more leftist-dominated forums, I see that many of them also view people on the right not just as wrong, but either dishonest or delusional. The disconnect -- in part -- is that we can't talk to each other because we seem to share so little common ground that honest disagreement appears to be bad faith from the very start. It doesn't help that the topics we disagree about are enormously important, from abortion to immigration to racial and gender equality. There's a
moral component that I think helps explain why we take someone
being wrong (in our opinion) to mean
being immoral. I think when you say that people are lying, even to themselves, you're capturing something of that. Liberals aren't just wrong in your opinion, they are immoral, and I think you might be working backwards a bit from there to conclude that they are lying. Meanwhile, leftists feel much the same (cf. "deplorables").
One of my interests is in trying to have conversations with people who I disagree with so strongly as to be tempted to immediately dismiss them as immoral in this sense. And I mean, I'm not saying I don't think that some of the posters in this forum are immoral; I'm sure I do. We have real differences. But the above may explain my interest in this thread.
Also: I'm going to watch a movie with my wife in a bit. I'll be keeping an eye on this thread but you'll have to excuse me if I let it develop slowly over the weekend and through next week
* I'm not including politicians...