Well said Dave as it is obvious that many of us southerners have come to the reality of the facts concerning human sexuality years ago.
As a flannel shirt wearing, tobacco chewing, beer swilling, former defensive end, straight, good old boy red neck I do not waste my time worrying about the gay boogey man.
He is not interested in me and I feel the same way. Been married 35 years and have come to the conclusion I do not understand it so I accept them as who they are and have found they are not bad folk at all.

A good internet friend of mine changed my mind about gays serving openly. He was a good Marine, but he couldn't hide who he was anymore...so he got out. The Corps lost out, he lost out, and America lost out. Nobody won.
The workplace changed my mind Dave. As a former competitor I always admired the guy that worked hard and over came adversity. When I saw the hatred of gays and lesbians in the work place many years ago I sort of stood up for the underdog so to speak. Then I saw their work ethic and how they were really no different than me and my wife except they fall in love with folks of the same sex.
And there is something about me that does not give a shit about what other folks think. They put guys like me on the defensive line!!
I do not understand it but what is there to understand? I support their rights and fight for them. I have a friend of mine retired from the Army 2 years ago.
"40 years from now we will see how silly this argument was" is what he has been saying for a while.
And he once was also against their open service.
An open mind is a powerful thing and you have one.