Two things.
1. You cannot be a "Christian" period, let alone a Chrisitan leader, and be openly and actively engaging in the abomination of homosexuality.
2. Any church that condones homosexual behavior, is apostate, not Christian.
There are many christian churches that accept homosexuality, homosexuals, gay marriage and gay clergy. They are as valid a church organization as any you have. Period.
Dear B:
As there are some eunuchs made by God and some by man,
this explains why there is disagreement about homosexuality:
some are born that way, some are that way because of man-made abuse,
some may or may not change in this lifetime, etc.
I believe that all cases of abuse can be healed, but even after that,
some people may remain homosexual. If God made them to be that way in this life.
I agree that there is some unnatural abuse involved in the manifestation of
homosexuality, but it is not always something that can be changed. That is up to God.
Some cases of cancer can be healed spiritually, and some cannot.
The point is to open up to receive the healing, by God's grace through Christ, but it is not for us to judge or condemn "to what degree" the healing takes place in physical reality.
Same with homosexuality.
I believe by healing all relationships, all generations, of any abuses or conflicts in this lifetime or passed down from before, then all the things we can cure, prevent or correct can be done. But again that is up to God's will, and is not for us to know or judge all things.
P.S. I do know a gay atheist who openly shares and teaches about the abundance of free grace in life. He believes and lives by the spirit of Peace and Justice or Restorative Justice, with the divine forgiveness that Christ Jesus represents. So although he does not identify as Christian, he is clearly a neighbor in Christ, as the Good Samaritan that you least suspect, but is actually one with Christ. I have no doubt God made him that way, just to teach a lesson not to judge people by appearances or labels.