Have You Ever REALLY Lost Your Temper With A Loved One and Had This Happen?

[ChristisKing]

Instead of yelling back at you and starting an argument about it they just admit that you're right about everything? Why does it seem to make you feel worse about the whole entire situation (depending on the situation) when this happens?

 

[Concerned American]

Instead of yelling back at you and starting an argument about it they just admit that you're right about everything? Why does it seem to make you feel worse about the whole entire situation (depending on the situation) when this happens?

Because it isn't a concession, it is a dismissal. No one likes being dismissed as being irrelevant or inconsequential.

 

[Slade3200]

Instead of yelling back at you and starting an argument about it they just admit that you're right about everything? Why does it seem to make you feel worse about the whole entire situation (depending on the situation) when this happens?

Yeah, happens all the time… cause I’m usually right about everything! ;-)

If you feel worse after an argument it’s probably guilt for losing your temper and making the other person feel bad. Often the case during arguments. Hopefully both parties are mature enough to apologize and hug it out.

Remember one very important thing…. Make up sex is some of the best sex in existence

 

[ChristisKing]

Yeah, happens all the time… cause I’m usually right about everything! ;-)

If you feel worse after an argument it’s probably guilt for losing your temper and making the other person feel bad. Often the case during arguments. Hopefully both parties are mature enough to apologize and hug it out.

Remember one very important thing…. Make up sex is some of the best sex in existence

Thanks but I didn't fight with my fiancee, it was my future mother in-law and it was moreso I felt her brokenness when I hit all the points. I don't really want to get all that much into it though.

 

[Slade3200]

Thanks but I didn't fight with my fiancee, it was my future mother in-law and it was moreso I felt her brokenness when I hit all the points. I don't really want to get all that much into it though.

Apologies and hugging it out will still work… hope it all smooths out

 

[Concerned American]

Thanks but I didn't fight with my fiancee, it was my future mother in-law and it was moreso I felt her brokenness when I hit all the points. I don't really want to get all that much into it though.

LOL, yep you were being dismissed big time. Best make amends or it might become uncomfortable after the wedding.

 

[ChristisKing]

LOL, yep you were being dismissed big time. Best make amends or it might become uncomfortable after the wedding.

I plan to tomorrow when I see her and as Slade said hugging it out.

 

[nomadic5]

Instead of yelling back at you and starting an argument about it they just admit that you're right about everything? Why does it seem to make you feel worse about the whole entire situation (depending on the situation) when this happens?

LOL

The Bible says "A soft answer turns away wrath"

Whoever this person is, you probably should hang onto him/her.. I have known people who go into a psychotic rage if you disagree w/ them, try to beat the crud out of you or whatever else they can do

 

[Concerned American]

LOL

The Bible says "A soft answer turns away wrath"

Whoever this person is, you probably should hang onto him/her.. I have known people who go into a psychotic rage if you disagree w/ them, try to beat the crud out of you or whatever else they can do

The soft answer is code. Like OK Fine. IOW, you think you've won, but I'm going to **** you so badly in the future that you will be unrecognizable. LOL

 

[ChristisKing]

The soft answer is code. Like OK Fine. IOW, you think you've won, but I'm going to **** you so badly in the future that you will be unrecognizable. LOL

Lol this wasn't one of those times though.

 

[Orangecat]

LOL, yep you were being dismissed big time. Best make amends or it might become uncomfortable after the wedding.

Might be the best thing ever to keep the MIL at a distance.

 

[Concerned American]

Lol this wasn't one of those times though.

JK

 

[EvilCat Breath]

You have been told that you are just not worth the argument. It was something my ex husband did very often. Don't think the agreement meant that you have changed her mind.

 

[ChristisKing]

You have been told that you are just not worth the argument. It was something my ex husband did very often. Don't think the agreement meant that you have changed her mind.

Actually, I think that she really believes what she said that she is entirely at fault for the incident from just the way that it came out.

 

[EvilCat Breath]

Actually, I think that she really believes what she said that she is entirely at fault for the incident from just the way that it came out.

You are naive. You have been dismissed with a very finessed contempt.

 

[ChristisKing]

You are naive. You have been dismissed with a very finessed contempt.

Nope! You weren't there so you can't say that.

 

[EvilCat Breath]

Nope! You weren't there so you can't say that.

You were there and had no idea what was happening. That's why you posted it here.

 

[ChristisKing]

You were there and had no idea what was happening. That's why you posted it here.

Touche, but I'm trying to explain to you that she was heartbroken when she said that I was right about everything. That's what you don't seem to understand.

 

[JOSweetHeart]

Instead of yelling back at you and starting an argument about it they just admit that you're right about everything? Why does it seem to make you feel worse about the whole entire situation (depending on the situation) when this happens?

To answer your question, no I have yet to have anyone, not counting people online that is, tell me that I am right about the stuff that I am right about. Why not? Because apparently people like me are not allowed to be right about anything even when we really are.

God bless you always!!!

Holly

 

[ChristisKing]

To answer your question, no I have yet to have anyone, not counting people online that is, tell me that I am right about the stuff that I am right about. Why not? Because apparently people like me are not allowed to be right about anything even when we really are.

God bless you always!!!

Holly

You always seem to be right on here all the time though if you were counting people online.