Grief

[beautress]

You should specify what caused it. So far, all the solutions given above -specially the graphic ones- are very good.

My baby sister died a few months ago, and now my mother died.

The universe is piling on.

Muhammed, how sorry I am for you! How old was you sister? Losing a parent is difficult in itself, let alone your sister. I try to remind myself that there is no pain for them any longer, no fear and I have always believed that when we enter the Hereafter, we will be younger, healthy and waiting for our loved ones to come. We feel the loss here, but they don't. That is some consolation.

My baby sister was only 27 years old and was 38 weeks pregnant when she died under suspicious circumstances. Still haven't got the coroner's final report on that yet. And the police detectives are always closed mouthed and won't tell you anything while there's an ongoing investigation.

You must be beside yourself, Muhammed. I'm so sorry.

 

[CWayne]

How do you deal with it?

Revenge.

 

[depotoo]

You should specify what caused it. So far, all the solutions given above -specially the graphic ones- are very good.

My baby sister died a few months ago, and now my mother died.

The universe is piling on.

That’s a lot to deal with. I’m sorry for your loss.
My faith is what helps me.

 

[evenflow1969]

How do you deal with it?

I hop in my boat and walleye fish for about ten hours a day, till it's a distant memory. Nowhere like the water to clear your head.

 

[Jackson]

How do you deal with it?

Revenge.

That's dangerous. It could be against the law, the person you went after may go after you until someone is hurt or breaking the law. There's no comfort for that.