Originally posted by Abbey Normal
If you cheat on your girlfriend of many years, to whom you have not taken any oath of allegiance (i..e, marriage vows), have you not betrayed her?
Just imagine the following scenario, Abbey:
You would say:
“José is a scoundrel... he dated three other girls at the same time he dated her.”
Dillo would say:
“No way, José is not a psychic to read her mind and find out that monogamy was an important value in her worldview. Besides, he already dated those three girls when he met her so he just continued his previous relationships.”
Each member of the board would have his/her own opinion about my behaviour. No way of reaching a consensus about whether I betrayed her or not.
This is the problem with implicit agreements, Abbey.
They are open to subjetive interpretation because no one has explicitly promised anything to anyone.
This is why all developed human societies urges its citizens to formalise their implicit agreements through legal contrats etc etc...
The social contract is an implicit agreement. The members of the society agree to follow the rules of the state and respect its government.
The social contract suffers from the same problem of all implicit agreements. ThereÂ’s no way of conclusevely accusing a particular individual of betraying a contract he never explicitly agreed to follow.
A thief and a revolutionary can be accused of breaking two different rules of the social contract and be jailed for it, but they canÂ’t be accused of betraying a contract they never explicitely pledged to respect.
If my girlfriend wants to consider me a cheater beyond any reasonable doubt she must explicitly state that he wants to have a monogamous relationship with me.
If my society wants to consider me a traitor beyond any reasonable doubt it must make me explicitely pledge an alligeance to its values and government when I become an adult.
From then on, my stated allegiance to the values and government of my society will be formalised and my eventual act of treason will not be open to subjective interpretation anymore.