I can agree with that.
But I don't understand why you seem to want to imply that rule of the majority applies in the United States.
Because in some cases it does as I've pointed out.." a democracy is a form of government in
which the people decide policy matters directly--through town hall meetings or by voting on
ballot initiatives and referendums"
One example of this is Prop 8 in California where the voters overturned same-sex marriage rights.
Ok then, perhaps we are in violent agreement. Yes, we do have I believe, 3 avenues of pure democratic process available: Referendum, Petition and Recall. However, the town hall meetings that are the subject of this thread involve none of these. They are basically a dog and pony show trying to sell people on the Obama healthcare reform, but it's not like people get to vote on it. So I accept your point, but stress that in this discussion it is purely academic and only tangentially relevant.
On a side note, here in the People's Republic of Massachusetts, our elected leaders tend to ignore referendums and such, making these pure democratic avenues more like dead ends.