Welp all I can say is good luck to you then. Neither science nor the law support the idea that life begins at conception and I dare say the majority of American's believe it is the woman's right.
Well, you're partially right. Science does say that non-human life begins at conception. Human life doesn't, though, because Roe v. Wade ruled that it doesn't and we've built our abortion laws around that fact. The majority of Americans believing it is just further proof that this is the case. Thank you for teaching these dumbasses how real science works.
That would depend on which field of science if you want to discuss the whole truth. Geneticist's say that "human life" begins at fertilization when the sperm and egg chromosomes have combined. Embryologist's say it starts at gastrulation, roughly 14 days after fertilization when twining is no longer possible, and/or about 6 weeks after fertilization when sex is determined, at which point they claim it becomes an "individual life", Neurology claims that life begins when there is an EEG brain wave roughly 24-27 weeks, Ecologists say that the start of life is when the fetus can sustain itself outside the womb, earliest known to medical science is 21 weeks but that comes with a severe risk of development issues, so they say roughly 25 weeks. So the truth is that only Geneticists agree that life begins at fertilization.
"Conception" is more of a religious based idea, which in and of itself has it's own time frame definitions; by Judaism and historical Christian standards it was originally "ensoulment" or when the baby's movements could be felt, usually between 40days and 4 months, but the modern pro-life Christians argue it's conception. Hinduism similarly has "changed its mind" on the matter, historically it was believed to be around the 7th month, but around the 1st century they decided it was the 7th week that "ensoulment" took place. Buddhism can't really agree on a time frame within it's own diverse practices; one "camp" even believes that life (or I should say "rebirth") begins with the consummation of a marriage (so anytime one has sex, life might begin, if three things align and the karmic residue of a previously lived life is ready to be implanted.)
Roe vs Wade was about the cut off between when the states interest in a potential life became large enough to outweigh the woman's right to privacy. They set the precedence that point was "viability" which is, according to /all/ medical scientists regardless of when they believe life begins, toward the end of the first trimester.
It is a woman's choice until the potential life is viable. You want to believe life starts at conception, that is, of course, your right. However, others do /not/ believe that, and that is /their/ right as well. Same shit with homosexuality being "icky", and that is why abortion (at least in the first trimester) will almost undoubtedly never be illegal (unless we get another zealot in the oval office with a pen and a phone heh)
It's not your choice as a woman to murder your husband's child any more than it's your choice as a white person to murder your black neighbor.
So if the father agrees it's alright then? I would be willing to add something that a proven father has a right in the decision. (Of course, I'm guessing that in the vast majority of cases the father is a) already on board or b) already abandoned the girl so they're not going to say no.) We have the technology currently to do two types of paternal testing in the first trimester.
Non-Invasive Prenatal Paternity (NIPP): A non-invasive prenatal paternity test is the most accurate non-invasive way to establish paternity before the baby is born. The process is state-of-the-art, combining the latest technology and proprietary methods of preserving and analyzing the baby’s DNA found naturally in the mother’s bloodstream. This test requires only a simple blood collection from the mother and alleged father and can be performed any time after the 8th week of pregnancy. The test is
99.9% accurate.
and
Chorionic Villus Sampling (CVS): This test consists of a thin needle or tube which a doctor inserts from the vagina, through the cervix, guided by an
ultrasound, to obtain chorionic villi. Chorionic villi are little finger-like pieces of tissue attached to the wall of the uterus. The chorionic villi and the fetus come from the same fertilized egg, and have the same genetic makeup. This testing can be done earlier in pregnancy from the 10th-13th weeks. A doctor’s consent is needed to do this procedure for paternity testing.
However, I think such a thing would be at a) the expense of an immediate filing of something similar to child support upon the proven abortion blocking father, regardless of relationship status with the mother; this includes ALL medical costs, pre-natal, birth, etc., in addition it should include some compensation for the mother's physical needs in bearing the child (similar to the cost of a surrogate mother's compensation perhaps.) In addition the mother should be given /some/ compensation for any "side effects" like if she looses her job because she had to take leave, or if she doesn't have paid maternity leave kind of thing, then he should pay some kind of temporary alimony or something like that. Child visitation/custody should immediately be filed for and heard by the court /during/ the pregnancy; if the father wanted the kido and the mother did not then he should be given full custody and the mothers parental rights terminated so that she is not obligated by child support.
Similarly I believe that proven fathers should have the same rights if /they/ desired the child to be aborted but the mother did not. Though we'd have to have a serious discussion about any financial obligations the father might have to dissuade abuse. At present, regardless if the father wanted the child (as it is often the woman lies to the boyfriend saying she's on birth control when she is not) the father is then tagged for 18 years of child support as "punishment" for not "marrying" her. (By her choice alone I might add) I've always felt there should be a better balance of that common trap.
How did you get that from what I said? I'm genuinely confused. Being against it doesn't mean being for it if the biologically proven father is for it.
You said, that the mother didn't have the right to end the fathers childs life. I can agree that the father might have some rights in that decision. How is that hard to get? I merely extended it from "husband and wife" to ya know, the more likely reality, unwed people.
So what you /really/ meant to say then is that life begins at conception and /no/ abortion should be legal. Say that next time instead of adding in things about men having some choice in the matter.
I employ science and personal belief's just as much as the religious employ religious and personal beliefs so I'm not exactly sure why you read "religious nutjobs" into my statement. History reflects that the church is the one who forwarded the policy of teaching abstinence as birth control in this country, are you saying someone else did as well/instead? Please give me some links so I can further research these supposed non-religious abstinence pushers.
Being anti-abortion has nothing to do with "pushing abstinence" on people. I suspect you got that from the pro-choice claim that people who don't make their choice just hate women and want to control them sexually. By all means, sleep with whomever you want, as much as you want. All I'm asking is that you take appropriate measures to protect yourself and everyone else from diseases and unwanted pregnancy. The last thing that needs to happen is some fatal STI to start spreading or babies to die just because people were looking to ****. I've expressed on here before that I'm totally willing to send pro-choicers money for birth control myself if they can't or don't want to buy it for themselves. That offer is still open.[/quote]
Being pro-abortion/pro-choice has nothing to do with being pro/anti abstinence either, so what? No where did I say that being anti-abortion had anything to do with abstinence, if you read that in there, that's your head not mine. I merely pointed out that the church pushing abstinence, and "traditional values", has stood very much in the way of preventing unwanted pregnancies through proper contraceptive education. Hell I don't even believe that feminist bullshit that churches want women subservient so basically, stop trying to read what /I/ am thinking when you do not know me.
I'm no sheep, my "talking points" are my own not some groups and frankly I'm too old and well off to really give a flying **** if I fit into their stupid little camps. I believe what I believe, because that is what I believe for x reasons.
Now, I know for a fact, from personal experience, that the church very vocally opposed not only sex education in school, but contraception, sex before marriage, and any number of ideals that directly impeded getting proper sex education and various birth control methods into schools. In fact, it was widely argued when I was in elementary school that teaching sex education would promote more sex and to quote the "religious leaders" of my area, "If one practices sex before marriage and becomes pregnant, than that is God's punishment for the couple." These would be the same folks who pushed for laws requiring marriage if pregnancy was discovered, and a host of other bullshit. What I find sad is that even my peers knew they were stupid morons, luckily my "peers" finally took over the damn government and are working to repair the stupidity.
Yes well, again the church is generally the one who stands against putting free condoms in schools are they not? (I'm fine to add in your supposed non-religious pushers in here as well.)
The Catholic Church is one of the biggest backwards forces standing against providing adolescents access to contraception. I fight them on this all the time. They're literally just hurting my cause of making sure every conceived baby is a wanted baby and shooting both of us in the foot by creating a market for your abortion industry. That's what happens when you take marching orders from a silly little man in a dress...
/my abortion industry/ Seriously? What a ******* joke... Oh hey, another person to add to my "I have no respect for" list. Nothing new to see here lol
I find it interesting that your solution to a policy of non-responsibility is a socialist agenda... Considering that a lot of socialism relies on no one taking care of themselves... I personally find that socialist flavored policies are what /caused/ the "downward spiral" of self-responsibility in the first place. Still, I'm afraid I personally will not rebel against the majority of the USA, it is their country just as much as it is mine, and it is the very principle of her foundation. While I may mourn her changing, I will not "fight" what the majority wishes for her, other than with my vote, because this is what her people want. I love the "idea" of America, not what she has become; but she is not mine alone...
Socialism is going to fail without the general public being conscious of our interrelation. People hear "we're all family" and think it's hippy garbage. They don't step back and think and realize that, holy shit, yeah. We as a species actually are all literally one big incestuous fucked up family. Despite very few people seeing it, though, it's still very much a demonstrable truth, and that truth means means we have a hard and fast obligation to take care of one another. You wouldn't let your first cousin starve on the street. Why would you let your third? You would defend your unborn sister, so why not your third unborn niece? That realization is ultimately my motivation here. That's what drives me. It has nothing to do with any bullshit religion. It has everything to do with the fact that, like it or not, you might be a stranger but you're still my blood relative and I have an obligation to see that you're at least provided with the basic needs in life. That means safety, food, shelter, proper medicine... The Socialist Agenda(tm).
Yeah sorry I'm not an emotional type, I don't believe that a brain dead or non-brained "life" is "worth" saving, also ohi I'm one of those hated capitalist 1%'ers socialists are trying to /steal/ from. I've even tried to discuss ideas like a guaranteed income and crap but when people start talking about they /need/ $70k a year to "just to survive." I'm afraid I go, "Noooo, you're not being greedy and selfish at all" /sarcasm
Good will toward man, is a nice thought but one only has to walk down the street to see it's a nothing but a lie, a false hope, a dream world. Socialist leaders are Shepard's, they pretend they are helping, but they're only keeping you around because of what their followers provide THEM. Their followers, the sheep, like to pretend it is "good will," but the reality is that herd animals only run together because there's a higher likely hood that someone else will die instead of them. Socialists made the decision, upon their own, that the money earned by the successful belongs to everyone, it's a lie and they know it, but they decide that /those/ people are worth "sacrificing" - unity and "equality" my ******* ass... On the plus side, the sheep are stupid and fall for the lies, on the down side, the folks with the money see right through it and they have the ability to leave the herd at will.
I'd wanted to be a politician when I was younger but I found I couldn't deal with the hatred that abounds in this country. Funny how it doesn't change much from HS to adulthood; the hate is just as strong, just as unreasonable, and just as stupid for co-existence. There is zero desire for unity in this country, only a desire to forward one side or the other, there is no middle ground, there is no compromise, there is nothing for me personally to "forward" or "accomplish." I'm too even keeled, too middle of the road, to much a balancer of everything to have any chance in politics. So yea, I'm "just" on a forum board saying shit, trying to inform others, and analyzing the other side's opinions, "just" teaching my kids what /I/ believe in, and "just" living my life. I'm afraid my desire to be a "hero" died a long time ago when I lost... empathy for the stupid selfish greedy majority of the people of this country, on both sides of the political fence.
That larger goal of unity is exactly what I have in mind. That's what we should be fighting for: those stupid, selfish greedy people that are our cousins and nieces and nephews who just happen to be too far enough removed from each other to be out of sight, out of mind.
Unity via inequality, no thanks.
I had no qualms watching my brother lose everything when he fucked up, I certainly don't have a problem watching some 10k years ago relative loses everything for being a **** up. Sorry.
(EDIT - I give up trying to fix the stupid quotes on this post when the damn thing bugged up doing 1 character a minute. You'll have to deal with it being borked sorry.)