70% are estimated to be women and children and the count is likely much since there are many buried in the rubble and not all men are fighters.Two years of war, in a densely populated area, under cover of civilian shields/sacrifices, with maybe 35,000 civilian casualties is objectively a war of remarkable restraint.
Civilian deaths in 13 years of war in Iraq (which included urban warfare) was something like 190,000. Compare that to Gaza.
Doesn’t like much restraint to me. Certainly not admirable.