Thanks for those links.
Ya'll read 'em. This is pretty scary shit...cuz it can be done to ANYONE, not just an elderly gay couple.
Our "government servants" are not servants at all. They're power hungry, out of control, corrupt tools who are out to enrich themselves personally at our expense.
Kick 'em to the curb!
Some are, without a doubt. Some aren't. Probably most aren't, but the bad ones give them a bad name.
My whole point was, it happens and this sounds suspiciously like some of what has been going on in this area. There isn't enough information to know for sure, but it makes me wonder.
I do tend to believe at least the outline of the story, regardless of where it comes from or whether the local news picked it up. Stories along these lines are not uncommon, although this is extreme.
For example, hospital visitation and medical decision making is sometimes denied to unrelated, unmarried people even if they are designated in an advance directive (medical power of attorney or living will), sometimes as a result of conflicting and confusing State law and/or a misunderstanding of State laws. Occasionally as a result of prejudice, true - but I dare anybody to try to prove it. Also it can be an instance where the legal documents are ignored because there are blood relatives who object - loudly.
Where the documents are ignored for visitation or decision making and there are no blood relatives around, the hospital may call the County in to take charge of an elderly person they consider to have "no family". If the County workers also ignore the legal documents for whatever reason, they can and will take over everything from medical decisions to finances. Court fights are expensive and time consuming, not to mention confusing.
I haven't heard of a case this extreme and sucking in the other partner like this one alleges, but I can easily see how it would happen IF there is something else going on. How does a 14 year old kid get taken from his home and given 9 months in boot camp for taking a handful of change out of a neighbor's unlocked car? Because the judge got paid to put him there, of course. There's nothing here to know if that's the case, but since stranger things have already happened it wouldn't surprise me.