And thats why it was worded like that. 50%+ of people in over 50%+ of states rejected it. Most are opposed.
More than half the people who voted in more than half the states doesn't equal "most Americans".
Feel free to do the math, but 25% of Americans live somewhere where same-sex marriage is legal, and that percentage is going nowhere but up.
And that means 75% live somewhere where it isn't. Which means 75% of people live in an area where 50%+ (at minimum) rejected gay marriage.
Add to it our nations most populous state, California, where the voters said NO, but the liberal judges overruled democracy and said yes.
You're simply wrong. Behind the curtain, when voting, over 50% of Americans have, or would, reject allowing gay marriage.
America still has a strong traditional soul somewhere, and the nuclear family is a strong part of that. That doesn't make one a bigot, or hate gays. It just means we believe marriage is for a man and a woman. And some people, me included, thinks marriage in human society in part serves as a function to keep men from spreading their seed so often that population explodes beyond control. IN PART meant to do that, among other things. A gay couple has no need to worry about that. And thats partly a religious ideal. But it's something I believe somewhere in human history some religious leaders or govt leaders thought "HEy, we can stop all these men from knocking up all these women if we encourage marriage".
Anyway, just my 2 cents.
But MOST Americans agree it shouldn't be recognized.