Holding a grudge against another poster vs. not trusting another poster.
Hmmmmm.
Is there a difference? I'm thinking yes.
I don't know any of you personally, and haven't been around here long enough to actually 'trust' anyone. But I don't hold any grudges against any of you. I have thick skin and don't believe in being PC, so insults do nothing. But, if someone were to go out of there way to try and make my life miserable here, like a troll, then I'd probably hold a grudge and stay far away from this person.
Again though ... I'm all for being willing to forgive and have pity for folks like that.