Do You Have a LOW sex drive?

[ChrisL]

I think a man would love to be around a woman that was confident, but not cocky - intelligent but not brash.
Sexy, but not slutty. Affectionate, but not clingy

...easy but not talkative, rich but not picky, a great cook but not talkative, intelligent but not talkative...

believe it or not, I am NOT talkative in real life
that's probably why I "type" so much here
I always defer to the other person, am a great listener, maintain eye contact at all times
I want people to feel that what they say is of interest and concern to me. People want to feel valued.
I love people, I really do.

Except for your husband?

Nope, I love him too. He's right there with my kids
We all show love in different ways.
I'll never leave him.
He can be very fun and funny, I enjoy my time with him (except when he's complaining or mad) - but that's normal.

Just a couple of pages ago, you said differently. Lol.

 

[ChrisL]

I think a man would love to be around a woman that was confident, but not cocky - intelligent but not brash.
Sexy, but not slutty. Affectionate, but not clingy

...easy but not talkative, rich but not picky, a great cook but not talkative, intelligent but not talkative...

believe it or not, I am NOT talkative in real life
that's probably why I "type" so much here
I always defer to the other person, am a great listener, maintain eye contact at all times
I want people to feel that what they say is of interest and concern to me. People want to feel valued.
I love people, I really do.

Super...

I think she's trying to make an "impression" on you. Better watch out!

 

[Bonzi]

I think a man would love to be around a woman that was confident, but not cocky - intelligent but not brash.
Sexy, but not slutty. Affectionate, but not clingy

...easy but not talkative, rich but not picky, a great cook but not talkative, intelligent but not talkative...

believe it or not, I am NOT talkative in real life
that's probably why I "type" so much here
I always defer to the other person, am a great listener, maintain eye contact at all times
I want people to feel that what they say is of interest and concern to me. People want to feel valued.
I love people, I really do.

Except for your husband?

Nope, I love him too. He's right there with my kids
We all show love in different ways.
I'll never leave him.
He can be very fun and funny, I enjoy my time with him (except when he's complaining or mad) - but that's normal.

Just a couple of pages ago, you said differently. Lol.

no, I said he could leave me.
I'm not going anywhere

 

[Bonzi]

I think a man would love to be around a woman that was confident, but not cocky - intelligent but not brash.
Sexy, but not slutty. Affectionate, but not clingy

...easy but not talkative, rich but not picky, a great cook but not talkative, intelligent but not talkative...

believe it or not, I am NOT talkative in real life
that's probably why I "type" so much here
I always defer to the other person, am a great listener, maintain eye contact at all times
I want people to feel that what they say is of interest and concern to me. People want to feel valued.
I love people, I really do.

Super...

I think she's trying to make an "impression" on you. Better watch out!

no ... I don't like guys that are into poopies

 

[ChrisL]

...easy but not talkative, rich but not picky, a great cook but not talkative, intelligent but not talkative...

believe it or not, I am NOT talkative in real life
that's probably why I "type" so much here
I always defer to the other person, am a great listener, maintain eye contact at all times
I want people to feel that what they say is of interest and concern to me. People want to feel valued.
I love people, I really do.

Except for your husband?

Nope, I love him too. He's right there with my kids
We all show love in different ways.
I'll never leave him.
He can be very fun and funny, I enjoy my time with him (except when he's complaining or mad) - but that's normal.

Just a couple of pages ago, you said differently. Lol.

no, I said he could leave me.
I'm not going anywhere

You said you didn't care. You said that you were not willing to do any "work" to help your relationship be better. Stop lying so much! You are a compulsive liar.

 

[Bonzi]

his avi is cute tho

 

[ChrisL]

I think a man would love to be around a woman that was confident, but not cocky - intelligent but not brash.
Sexy, but not slutty. Affectionate, but not clingy

...easy but not talkative, rich but not picky, a great cook but not talkative, intelligent but not talkative...

believe it or not, I am NOT talkative in real life
that's probably why I "type" so much here
I always defer to the other person, am a great listener, maintain eye contact at all times
I want people to feel that what they say is of interest and concern to me. People want to feel valued.
I love people, I really do.

Super...

I think she's trying to make an "impression" on you. Better watch out!

no ... I don't like guys that are into poopies

You are into any guy that will pay attention to you. BE honest.

 

[Bonzi]

believe it or not, I am NOT talkative in real life
that's probably why I "type" so much here
I always defer to the other person, am a great listener, maintain eye contact at all times
I want people to feel that what they say is of interest and concern to me. People want to feel valued.
I love people, I really do.

Except for your husband?

Nope, I love him too. He's right there with my kids
We all show love in different ways.
I'll never leave him.
He can be very fun and funny, I enjoy my time with him (except when he's complaining or mad) - but that's normal.

Just a couple of pages ago, you said differently. Lol.

no, I said he could leave me.
I'm not going anywhere

You said you didn't care. You said that you were not willing to do any "work" to help your relationship be better. Stop lying so much! You are a compulsive liar.

I did say that, but I'm not leaving him. I just am only willing to do so much. But it's up to him if he can accept that or not.

 

[Unkotare]

I think a man would love to be around a woman that was confident, but not cocky - intelligent but not brash.
Sexy, but not slutty. Affectionate, but not clingy

...easy but not talkative, rich but not picky, a great cook but not talkative, intelligent but not talkative...

believe it or not, I am NOT talkative in real life
that's probably why I "type" so much here
I always defer to the other person, am a great listener, maintain eye contact at all times
I want people to feel that what they say is of interest and concern to me. People want to feel valued.
I love people, I really do.

Super...

I think she's trying to make an "impression" on you. Better watch out!

Yikes. No thanks.

 

[Bonzi]

...easy but not talkative, rich but not picky, a great cook but not talkative, intelligent but not talkative...

believe it or not, I am NOT talkative in real life
that's probably why I "type" so much here
I always defer to the other person, am a great listener, maintain eye contact at all times
I want people to feel that what they say is of interest and concern to me. People want to feel valued.
I love people, I really do.

Super...

I think she's trying to make an "impression" on you. Better watch out!

no ... I don't like guys that are into poopies

You are into any guy that will pay attention to you. BE honest.

... or girl

 

[ChrisL]

Except for your husband?

Nope, I love him too. He's right there with my kids
We all show love in different ways.
I'll never leave him.
He can be very fun and funny, I enjoy my time with him (except when he's complaining or mad) - but that's normal.

Just a couple of pages ago, you said differently. Lol.

no, I said he could leave me.
I'm not going anywhere

You said you didn't care. You said that you were not willing to do any "work" to help your relationship be better. Stop lying so much! You are a compulsive liar.

I did say that, but I'm not leaving him. I just am only willing to do so much. But it's up to him if he can accept that or not.

Yet, you want this and want that and expect HIM to give you these things, and if he doesn't you go online and try to find it with other men. Right? It seems you work pretty hard to get attention around here, so why not with your own husband?

 

[Bonzi]

I think a man would love to be around a woman that was confident, but not cocky - intelligent but not brash.
Sexy, but not slutty. Affectionate, but not clingy

...easy but not talkative, rich but not picky, a great cook but not talkative, intelligent but not talkative...

believe it or not, I am NOT talkative in real life
that's probably why I "type" so much here
I always defer to the other person, am a great listener, maintain eye contact at all times
I want people to feel that what they say is of interest and concern to me. People want to feel valued.
I love people, I really do.

Super...

I think she's trying to make an "impression" on you. Better watch out!

Yikes. No thanks.

see - I was rejected. I can handle it. I have been rejected many times!
You know how many PMs I get from guys? Zero! Well, not very often, and if they do it's a very short lived conversation!

 

[Iceweasel]

One thing I discovered is gals on those anti-depressant pills typically have a low interest in sex. They just kind of flat line through life and think it's fine. That may be true for men too but so far haven't resorted to switching teams.

 

[Bonzi]

Nope, I love him too. He's right there with my kids
We all show love in different ways.
I'll never leave him.
He can be very fun and funny, I enjoy my time with him (except when he's complaining or mad) - but that's normal.

Just a couple of pages ago, you said differently. Lol.

no, I said he could leave me.
I'm not going anywhere

You said you didn't care. You said that you were not willing to do any "work" to help your relationship be better. Stop lying so much! You are a compulsive liar.

I did say that, but I'm not leaving him. I just am only willing to do so much. But it's up to him if he can accept that or not.

Yet, you want this and want that and expect HIM to give you these things, and if he doesn't you go online and try to find it with other men. Right? It seems you work pretty hard to get attention around here, so why not with your own husband?

No, I come on line to vent.
I am not interested in meeting or knowing anyone here in real life
This suits me just fine.

 

[Bonzi]

One thing I discovered is gals on those anti-depressant pills typically have a low interest in sex. They just kind of flat line through life and think it's fine. That may be true for men too but so far haven't resorted to switching teams.

The only time I feel sexy is:

(1) When I think I look sexy
(2) When I think other people think I look sexy
(3) When I'm drunk

 

[ChrisL]

Just a couple of pages ago, you said differently. Lol.

no, I said he could leave me.
I'm not going anywhere

You said you didn't care. You said that you were not willing to do any "work" to help your relationship be better. Stop lying so much! You are a compulsive liar.

I did say that, but I'm not leaving him. I just am only willing to do so much. But it's up to him if he can accept that or not.

Yet, you want this and want that and expect HIM to give you these things, and if he doesn't you go online and try to find it with other men. Right? It seems you work pretty hard to get attention around here, so why not with your own husband?

No, I come on line to vent.
I am not interested in meeting or knowing anyone here in real life
This suits me just fine.

You go out of your way to get attention around here. Only a deaf, dumb and blind person would think otherwise. Lol. Yet when someone suggests that you try to do things to perk up your husband's interest in sex, you say that's "work." Right?

 

[ChrisL]

One thing I discovered is gals on those anti-depressant pills typically have a low interest in sex. They just kind of flat line through life and think it's fine. That may be true for men too but so far haven't resorted to switching teams.

The only time I feel sexy is:

(1) When I think I look sexy
(2) When I think other people think I look sexy
(3) When I'm drunk

Why do you always have to have validation from people online who are . . . well whackos? You have low self esteem apparently.

 

[Bonzi]

no, I said he could leave me.
I'm not going anywhere

You said you didn't care. You said that you were not willing to do any "work" to help your relationship be better. Stop lying so much! You are a compulsive liar.

I did say that, but I'm not leaving him. I just am only willing to do so much. But it's up to him if he can accept that or not.

Yet, you want this and want that and expect HIM to give you these things, and if he doesn't you go online and try to find it with other men. Right? It seems you work pretty hard to get attention around here, so why not with your own husband?

No, I come on line to vent.
I am not interested in meeting or knowing anyone here in real life
This suits me just fine.

You go out of your way to get attention around here. Only a deaf, dumb and blind person would think otherwise. Lol. Yet when someone suggests that you try to do things to perk up your husband's interest in sex, you say that's "work." Right?

Oh, I flirt with my husband too trust me. He thinks I'm a dork. probably what the others here think also.....

 

[Bonzi]

One thing I discovered is gals on those anti-depressant pills typically have a low interest in sex. They just kind of flat line through life and think it's fine. That may be true for men too but so far haven't resorted to switching teams.

The only time I feel sexy is:

(1) When I think I look sexy
(2) When I think other people think I look sexy
(3) When I'm drunk

Why do you always have to have validation from people online who are . . . well whackos? You have low self esteem apparently.

hmmm just sharing, most people here don't even like me... so if I'm here for validation I think I'm at the wrong place!

 

[Bonzi]

you're starting to get weird again Chris... we are done talking