Do You Have a LOW sex drive?

[Bonzi]

you can be confident and also humble

 

[sealybobo]

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You look good! It's a good picture.

I actually had to take 3 to get one I would be willing to share. It's sad. I wish I could post like a horrible ugly pic of me for fun. I have to work on my vanity and selfishness...they are terrible character flaws

ALL women have vanity. We have pressure to always look our best from the time we are children!

Okay, maybe not ALL, but most. Lol. You can tell the ones who don't. Just look around in Walmart.

Ever see the big fat woman with painted toes? Makes me laugh. I always say to myself, "oh yea now that makes you hot, not!"

 

[ChrisL]

hum·ble
ˈhəmbəl/
adjective

1. 1.
   having or showing a modest or low estimate of one's own importance.
   "he was humble about his stature as one of rock history's most influential guitarists"
   synonyms: meek, deferential, respectful, submissive, diffident, self-effacing,unassertive; More
   
   • 
     
2. 2.
   of low social, administrative, or political rank.
   "she came from a humble, unprivileged background"
   synonyms: lowly, working-class, lower-class, poor, undistinguished, mean,modest, ignoble, low-born, plebeian, underprivileged; More
   
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verb

1. 1.
   lower (someone) in dignity or importance.
   "I knew he had humbled himself to ask for my help"
   synonyms: humiliate, abase, demean, lower, degrade, debase; More

 

[ChrisL]

self-con·fi·dence
noun

1. a feeling of trust in one's abilities, qualities, and judgment.
   synonyms: morale, confidence, self-assurance, assurance, assertiveness, self-reliance, self-possession, composure
   "they told Tom he lacked the self-confidence to make it as a singer"

 

[Bonzi]

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You look good! It's a good picture.

I actually had to take 3 to get one I would be willing to share. It's sad. I wish I could post like a horrible ugly pic of me for fun. I have to work on my vanity and selfishness...they are terrible character flaws

ALL women have vanity. We have pressure to always look our best from the time we are children!

Okay, maybe not ALL, but most. Lol. You can tell the ones who don't. Just look around in Walmart.

Ever see the big fat woman with painted toes? Makes me laugh. I always say to myself, "oh yea now that makes you hot, not!"

I see that a lot, I think they just try to make attractive what they can - ?
Most people don't like hard work. I have lost about 15 lbs. Not from hard work, from medication that made me lose my appetite (not diet pills) - anyway, I still have to do work to tone up.... I'm about 123 now... so, I'm hoping to get to about 115 and stabilize

 

[ChrisL]

I prefer self confidence over "humility" any day. "Do I look fat?" "Don't you love me?" "Why won't you pay attention to ME?" Lol. Humility could also be called annoying.

 

[mudwhistle]

you can be confident and also humble

Beat me to it.

 

[mudwhistle]

View attachment 68075

You look good! It's a good picture.

I actually had to take 3 to get one I would be willing to share. It's sad. I wish I could post like a horrible ugly pic of me for fun. I have to work on my vanity and selfishness...they are terrible character flaws

ALL women have vanity. We have pressure to always look our best from the time we are children!

Okay, maybe not ALL, but most. Lol. You can tell the ones who don't. Just look around in Walmart.

Ever see the big fat woman with painted toes? Makes me laugh. I always say to myself, "oh yea now that makes you hot, not!"

Every little bit helps.

 

[ChrisL]

You look good! It's a good picture.

I actually had to take 3 to get one I would be willing to share. It's sad. I wish I could post like a horrible ugly pic of me for fun. I have to work on my vanity and selfishness...they are terrible character flaws

ALL women have vanity. We have pressure to always look our best from the time we are children!

Okay, maybe not ALL, but most. Lol. You can tell the ones who don't. Just look around in Walmart.

Ever see the big fat woman with painted toes? Makes me laugh. I always say to myself, "oh yea now that makes you hot, not!"

I see that a lot, I think they just try to make attractive what they can - ?
Most people don't like hard work. I have lost about 15 lbs. Not from hard work, from medication that made me lose my appetite (not diet pills) - anyway, I still have to do work to tone up.... I'm about 123 now... so, I'm hoping to get to about 115 and stabilize

He is talking about those women who are a complete mess, yet their nails look fantastic. He's right! Lol. IF they put half the effort into the rest of them as they did their nails, they might look a little better.

 

[ChrisL]

Anyways, having respect for one another and love in your relationship is what will make it last. Looks are going to fade and disappear. After the 40s or 50s, things are going to start sagging and going south. You cannot fight gravity. It gonna getcha eventually. Lol.

 

[Unkotare]

I'm just telling the truth here. MOST people are not looking very "sexually attractive" after the age of 50 or 60. You are aging, and so is your body. That is why LOVE and respect is an important factor in a relationship.

It is so true. Just go to a dating website and search for women in their 50s. Grosse! Wtf happened? When did they hit that wall?

And still you are alone.

 

[Bonzi]

I think a man would love to be around a woman that was confident, but not cocky - intelligent but not brash.
Sexy, but not slutty. Affectionate, but not clingy

 

[ChrisL]

I think a man would love to be around a woman that was confident, but not cocky - intelligent but not brash.
Sexy, but not slutty. Affectionate, but not clingy

Some men would be grateful to be around ANY woman.

 

[Unkotare]

I think a man would love to be around a woman that was confident, but not cocky - intelligent but not brash.
Sexy, but not slutty. Affectionate, but not clingy

...easy but not talkative, rich but not picky, a great cook but not talkative, intelligent but not talkative...

 

[Unkotare]

I think a man would love to be around a woman that was confident, but not cocky - intelligent but not brash.
Sexy, but not slutty. Affectionate, but not clingy

Some men would be grateful to be around ANY woman.

Shhh!...bobo is right there, he can hear you! Poor, hapless bastard.

 

[Bonzi]

I think a man would love to be around a woman that was confident, but not cocky - intelligent but not brash.
Sexy, but not slutty. Affectionate, but not clingy

...easy but not talkative, rich but not picky, a great cook but not talkative, intelligent but not talkative...

believe it or not, I am NOT talkative in real life
that's probably why I "type" so much here
I always defer to the other person, am a great listener, maintain eye contact at all times
I want people to feel that what they say is of interest and concern to me. People want to feel valued.
I love people, I really do.

 

[Unkotare]

I think a man would love to be around a woman that was confident, but not cocky - intelligent but not brash.
Sexy, but not slutty. Affectionate, but not clingy

...easy but not talkative, rich but not picky, a great cook but not talkative, intelligent but not talkative...

believe it or not, I am NOT talkative in real life
that's probably why I "type" so much here
I always defer to the other person, am a great listener, maintain eye contact at all times
I want people to feel that what they say is of interest and concern to me. People want to feel valued.
I love people, I really do.

Super...

 

[ChrisL]

I think a man would love to be around a woman that was confident, but not cocky - intelligent but not brash.
Sexy, but not slutty. Affectionate, but not clingy

...easy but not talkative, rich but not picky, a great cook but not talkative, intelligent but not talkative...

believe it or not, I am NOT talkative in real life
that's probably why I "type" so much here
I always defer to the other person, am a great listener, maintain eye contact at all times
I want people to feel that what they say is of interest and concern to me. People want to feel valued.
I love people, I really do.

Except for your husband?

 

[Bonzi]

I think a man would love to be around a woman that was confident, but not cocky - intelligent but not brash.
Sexy, but not slutty. Affectionate, but not clingy

...easy but not talkative, rich but not picky, a great cook but not talkative, intelligent but not talkative...

believe it or not, I am NOT talkative in real life
that's probably why I "type" so much here
I always defer to the other person, am a great listener, maintain eye contact at all times
I want people to feel that what they say is of interest and concern to me. People want to feel valued.
I love people, I really do.

Super...

I love that movie ironically enough. One of my favorites....

 

[Bonzi]

I think a man would love to be around a woman that was confident, but not cocky - intelligent but not brash.
Sexy, but not slutty. Affectionate, but not clingy

...easy but not talkative, rich but not picky, a great cook but not talkative, intelligent but not talkative...

believe it or not, I am NOT talkative in real life
that's probably why I "type" so much here
I always defer to the other person, am a great listener, maintain eye contact at all times
I want people to feel that what they say is of interest and concern to me. People want to feel valued.
I love people, I really do.

Except for your husband?

Nope, I love him too. He's right there with my kids
We all show love in different ways.
I'll never leave him.
He can be very fun and funny, I enjoy my time with him (except when he's complaining or mad) - but that's normal.