Wait, that really WAS sincere??? Jesus, Mary, and Joseph!
Okay, first of all, it's moot, now that I'm off the rep grid, but I'm sure you know that.
Second, anyone who uses rep to discipline other users in the way you described is about as anti-free-speech as it gets. Nobody died and made you all mods and admins. If you don't like someone's personality, at least be man enough to come out and say it. Either the other person will listen or they won't.
Third, if you want to talk about - oh, I dunno - issues or anything, the other guy's personality shouldn't matter, as long as you both stick to picking apart the arguments and not getting into all the rep bullshit. You might not believe this, but I do admit it when someone calls me out on an incorrect fact or logical fallacy.
Okay, I'm done with the soapbox.