Why would someone choose homosexuality?
Firstly before I answer, please know my reply is not being prejudice againsts a person or persons. I believe we all have sinned, we all have fallen short of the Glory of God. We are all in the same boat.
However, I believe it all starts with our spiritual state of being. It's starts with knowing Jesus Christ as Lord and Savior. For those who do not yet believe in Jesus Christ our Lord yet or deny Him - they are very capable of being sucked into the "world" and the lies of "Satan", whom satan wants people to hurt themselves and others.
I know, I've been there. The "world" says certain things are ok - kinda like peer pressure when we were kids. But ultimately these things hurt us or others around us. We think it is "ok", when in reality it's not. It's hurting ourselves/others = sin. And the only thing..or I shall say the only One Whom can help us, is Jesus Christ our Lord. Love covers a multiple of sins.
Moreover, I believe when people outright deny Jesus Christ, upon the timing of which only
the Lord knows and they have been witnessed to in His timing..when they say that He(Jesus Christ) is a lie and not the truth, then the Lord knows when that heart truly turns away from Him - they exchange His truth for a lie. Like the verse I posted earlier.. they
exchange the truth of God for a lie.
Romans 1:21-25
21 For although they knew God, they neither glorified him as God nor gave thanks to him, but their thinking became futile and their foolish hearts were darkened. 22 Although they claimed to be wise, they became fools 23 and exchanged the glory of the immortal God for images made to look like a mortal human being and birds and animals and reptiles.
24 Therefore God gave them over in the sinful desires of their hearts to sexual impurity for the degrading of their bodies with one another. 25 They exchanged the truth about God for a lie, and worshiped and served created things rather than the Creator—who is forever praised. Amen.
So that means, if they have no God, they don't have to be convicted. If they don't have to feel convicted, (or run from it) they can do anything they want, and try to justify it anyway they want. (Yes and I've been there, I know totally. I'm not saying I never sinned, for I have sinned greatly, and sometimes still do. But in other words, I once was blind, but now I see) Like the song, "Amazing Grace" Those words of that song are so true. God opens our eyes to the "world" and also to our own sin. Before knowing Jesus Christ, we are blind.
Or to put it another way, there is a point at which
only the Lord knows that people either receive His Truth, or they deny it. He knows, since He is God, that their hearts will be darkened against Him - they "choose" not to yield to the One True God. We can't MAKE someone love us. Neither does God - He gave us freedom, and love is a choice ultimately.
Just as homosexuality is a
choice. I do believe however, many will be delivered from it, because of their conviction, and as they come upon the knowledge of Jesus Christ, their Lord and Savior. His Love and revelation of Who He is what helps to "want" to put away things that hurt us or others.
We all struggle with things and always will, but the difference is that when believers in Jesus Christ sin or mess up, we get disciplined from the Lord -we get
convicted - but its a GOOD thing! It's so hard but it's like being "pruned". A Father's loving discipline. That is what the Lord does and He does it in "love", not in condemnation. He made a way through Jesus Christ our Lord. Without knowing Him, we are still "of the world" and can be deceived very easily by lies.
I guess however, that there are thousands upon thousands of people who are struggling with homosexuality are doing just that. "Struggling" with it. It's evident it's a "
struggle" by people claiming to "
come out of the closet".
What did they have to hide about it in the first place if it wasn't wrong?
Again though, struggling with it, asking for help with a sin.... is alot different than being defiant and saying its
not a sin. It is honest to say we are struggling with something. And don't let the "world" fool you, we ARE weak, and we DO need the Lord, our Savior.
Overall, when we put our trust/faith/hope in Jesus Christ, He changes our lives, we see as we haven't seen before, we are loved like we were never loved before, and it is only by HIS righteousness that we are saved. Not anything we can "do", but upon knowing Him, His love revealed brings us to our knees (in a good way) and we no longer want to sin.
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