Even if you're not religious, the use of birth control within your marriage will cause discord in your sexual relationship. The husband will begin to see his wife as an object to be used for sexual gratification, without concern for her needs. The wife will begin to resent the selfish attitude of her husband. The availability of birth control means that both parties are more likely to stray into infidelity, and once that starts, trust is destroyed.
Not everyone thinks like you do.
I'm not telling you what I think. I'm telling you what is really happening. I was married for a very long time. I know quite a bit about this topic.
30+ years and my parents and in-law were married till death
You have a limited knowledge of life
I've seen the best and worst around the world of families and relationships.
You live in some illusion that exist only for you
Sex is vital, in marriage or outside it. It is far more than just procreation.
Children are not always in the cards, with or without protection. Some don't want children at all.
Sex is healthy and pleasurable and beneficial for body and mind.
Sex is vital for a good marriage before children and even into old age, as long as both are physically able.
People have been doing it since the dawn of time and and will till the end of it.
If you have your own ideas that work for you, so be it, but don't expect others to feel the way you do. Don't tell the rest of us what to do or what is "right". It is only right for you.
Everyone else will enjoy in our way and time as much as we want.
