"If the south had stopped acting like shitheads in 1865, I'd be happy to forgive them. ****, Germany can't stop apologizing for World War II, and I forgive them".
That would be because the South neither wants or needs forgiveness for anything. Unfortunately the same is not true of the North. When is the North going to apologize for the atrocity known as "Reconstruction"? The KKK was initially formed to oppose that particular atrocity and- had I lived in those times-I would have been a proud member.