No. You're not pure evil. You just have no idea how to befriend someone just on the basis of common humanity. You can't seem to just see me as human--I'm a lesbian but so what? I just happen to be a member of a minority--some class of people you're clearly ignorant about and have negative judgements you can't work out.
You peppered me repeatedly in pms, about personal topics I had no interest in discussing with you. You were very manipulative. You told me if I didn't want to discuss my sexuality with you then I must not have self-esteem. I have enough self-esteem to have clear boundaries. I don't talk about sex with strangers--especially teenagers. I asked Gunny to put a stop to it. He did. End of story. Get lost.
OMG...
Thanks for doing so much to change my perceptions. I know it's not your job or anything but it really comes off as disingenuous that you say I'm so ignorant when I made a good faith effort to learn. And you slammed the door on me.
If "peppering" you means sending 1, then getting 1 back, then responding to that, etc. then, uh... ok, I guess I was really menacing. And I think you may be forgetting about how I said I wouldn't respond anymore unless you specifically said I should and then you continued to PM me YOUR hateful vitriol for days.
Oh yes, the Gunny incident. Yes, I remember that well. It had been AT LEAST 2 weeks since even you had sent me a PM (cos remember I had stopped responding to you) and you ran off to Gunny to have him make me stop. Stop what exactly at that point is pretty confusing because I hadn't even responded to your wacky posts on the board. Yeah, remember all those threads with Catz? I was there - responding - but not to you. When Gunny PMed to tell me to stop I was wondering if I was caught in some kind of time warp because it seemed you had quit the board in the intervening time... but I realize now that you come and go just for the attention.
Honestly, when I saw this thread title I thought of you.
I don't mean this in a mean or sarcastic way, but I seriously think you need to get some help. Your obsession with our past conversations is troubling, let it go, I have. I see you as a person in some kind of terrible pain and you're struggling to deal with it, but I don't think you've found a healthy way of dealing with it. I don't know how I can help you or I would. I've apologized to you, I stopped responding to your PMs when you asked me to. Is there something more I can do for you? Please let me know, it makes me sad to think you're hurting over our past.