I hope that - like in my story earlier - your hospice or end of life care worker is Gay.
That is not the issue. I think I am not being clear. I feel that there are two things that constitute adult behavior....not only two but these are two that are big on my personal list. One is having sex. If you engage in that then for me that is adult behavior...it has adult consequences two if you are having a homosexual relationship. If you do so...fine but in both instances you need to be supporting yourself outside my home because it is not right for me to foot your expenses and support you while you engage in things I do not think are right.
I understand wanting to be the boss of your home, but I think you are creating an unrealistic one-way street.
Asking a homosexual to not behave as a homosexual is like asking a straight person not to behave as a straight person.
If a particular gay person is acting like a flaming homo, this is not a trait unique to homosexuals. We all know straight men who screw everything that casts a shadow and straight women who sleep with any man with a pulse. Spend five minutes on Bourbon Street in New Orleans during Mardi Gras and you will see heteros giving the yahoos in a Gay Pride parade a run for their money.
If you have a homosexual under your roof who is behaving outside the bounds of propriety, gay or straight, there is nothing wrong with asking them to tone it down. But if you are making exceptions just for gay people, that is unrealistic.