You still missed it. The whole reason the wife trusts her husband, is because he isn't going alone with other women.
And a woman who trusts a husband who has no boundaries... that woman is getting ready to have her heart broken, and sitting around "i never thought he was screw another woman!"
Now I get it, you have not had this problem. Well peachy for you. Do you know how many women will wake up TODAY, and find out their husband is having an affair? Thousands. Thousands.
And each one before the affair was saying "Oh I trust my husband!".
We are not talking about the husband being alone in a hotel room, we are taking about a professional setting during normal business hours.
I often have to drive an hour or two too meet with operators or go to trade shows. We always send two people, often there is a man and a woman.
Someone once asked my wife if she was worried, her answer was “if I couldn’t trust him to drive in a car with a female, I would not stay married to him”
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And there are women that have said the same thing, and a year or two later, their husbands are screwing that woman that was in the car with him.
I know this, because I know a woman right now, that had this happen to her, and she would have said the exact same thing as your wife, the year before it happened.
Just the facts man.
If someone is going to cheat, they are going to cheat. Living your life waiting for them to do so is a shitty way to live.
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Nah. I disagree with your conclusion. If you put yourself in a compromising situation, you are more likely to do something wrong.
Why do you think the saying "he got in with the wrong crowd" came from? I knew a guy who got in with a bunch of others that were into drugs, and the first thing he did after getting released from prison, was to move to a new location and cut off ties with those people. Because even he himself knew that if he kept hanging around those people, he'd be back into the drug culture.
I knew another guy that was hanging with the wrong people, and one day they started vandalizing homes. After the police caught them, the first thing he did was cut off these people from his life, because he knew they would do it again... and they did, but the next time he wasn't with them.
Putting yourself in a compromising situation drastically increases the chances of you doing something wrong.
What's funny is that typically people understand that with their kids. You see kids acting crazy, and into bad things, you tend to move your kids elsewhere, to limit their exposure to those bad influence.
Yet for some stupid reason, when people get older, we have this pseudo super-man complex where, you think outside influence can no longer corrupt. You are crazy if you think that.
Gotta be honest... that's a bad line of thinking.
I mean I get what you saying. If a man intends to cheat, he's going to cheat. But many men just get sucked into a bad situation, because they didn't have proper boundaries for their lives.