I hear ya. But my ex-wife saw the biggest mass UFO sighting in the US, and she saw it from about 100 feet away.
She witnessed the Hudson Boomerang in 1985. Up close and personal. Of course she doesn't have a photo, but after I met her years later and she told me of the story, I found a pic of it and showed it to her, and it is exactly what she saw.
Now, she still does not believe it was an alien spacecraft even though it hovered and zoomed away. It also flew over i-95 and people got out of their cars to watch this. It was all over the news and police reports. On this particular occasion (it happened more than once), it was declared to be 3 low-flying airplanes by the gov't.
Now she doesn't believe in aliens bc she's Catholic, but she knows for sure it was not 3 low flying airplanes. Not when they were a distance of about "across the street" as she describes. When I showed her this pic taken at the same location and time, she said that is exactly what she was seeing. She thinks it's some sort of government vehicle, but agrees that they should not be flying it over heavily populated areas of CT and NY. She was in East Milford, CT, when she saw this, and will swear by it.
So.... i tried everything to try to debunk it. A blimp, Christmas lights strung along in the summer, every possible thing I could think to say it was not a flying craft. And it was definitely a flying craft, that could hover, fly slowly, and zoom away at incredible speeds at an instant. She agrees it is nothing like what we have in tech today.
So since she cannot accept the "alien" possibility, she knows for sure it is not what our gov't said it was.
I would kill to see something like that.... that would be "proof" to me... Although she is now way more accepting that it was "alien", it used to kick my butt that she still thought it was government stuff flying over CT and NY for 8 years.