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AAP Policy Statement Urges Support and Care of Transgender and Gender-Diverse Children and Adolescents
The AAP recommends taking a āgender-affirming,ā nonjudgmental approach that helps children feel safe in a society that too often marginalizes or stigmatizes those seen as different. The gender-affirming model strengthens family resiliency and takes the emphasis off heightened concerns over gender while allowing children the freedom to focus on academics, relationship-building and other typical developmental tasks.
Additional AAP recommendations include:
- Providing youth with access to comprehensive gender-affirming and developmentally appropriate health care.
- Providing family-based therapy and support be available to meet the needs of parents, caregivers and siblings of youth who identify as transgender.
- Making sure that electronic health records, billing systems, patient-centered notification systems and clinical research are designed to respect the asserted gender identity of each patient while maintaining confidentiality.
- Supporting insurance plans that offer coverage specific to the needs of youth who identify as transgender, including coverage for medical, psychological and, when appropriate, surgical interventions.
- Advocacy by pediatricians within their communities, for policies and laws that seek to promote acceptance of all children without fear of harassment, exclusion or bullying because of gender expression.
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