Genesis 19 is very clearly written. God massacred a whole city of men women and children for "Sodomy", but spared this guy who fucked his daughters.
Helena of Troy was a teenager, some say she was 12 years old, others 14 years old, but no one says she was an adult. And because a teenager girl a whole war happened.
Similar with Pocahontas. The story of an adult man in love with a teenager girl.
In the end of the 60's, the parks in San Francisco were full of hippies where adult men -even over 50 years old- had open sex with thirteen years old girls who escaped from their homes to live over there. And no records of police arresting such "male sexual predators".
When you read the doctrines of the bible, you understand the tolerance perimeter of the acceptance of sexual relationship between man and woman. Abraham himself having as a wife his half sister is a clear example.
While you might interpret the case of Lot having sex with the daughters, on the other hand the narration says that technically the daughters were the ones having sex with their father. They caused Lot to get drunk and later they had sex with him.
The "law" of no sexual contact between father and daughter or mother and son appeared later on in Moses era.
Before Moses, population was limited, and in this case with Lot, the daughters did what they thought was the only way to preserve their lineage.
On the other hand, the city of Sodom was infected already. In those time there weren't "condoms" and sexual diseases spread out very easily. Homosexuality is the best way to destroy any society, because by having contact of the sexual organ with excrement, and excrement with the mouth, this is a sure path of sexual disease appearance.
Men having sex with men and also with women caused the infection to pass from person to person, and this includes children.
In modern times, there are cases where total communities had to be isolated because a common infection happening, like the case of Ebola, and the current case of Corona virus.
In those times, this measure of isolation for Sodom was not at hand, and destruction of the infected city was a must, the secured way to avoid the spread out of the sexual diseases arising from homosexual activity.
You see, NATURE has laws, and homosexuality is against the law of nature. There is a reason why humans have two sexes: man and woman.
Nature has not allowed humanity to be born with a third sex, and "intermediate sex", and optional birth sex other than man and woman. Then, having sex between men or between women is against their own nature.
Historians have misunderstood the actions of many civilizations, specially leaders who destroyed everything while conquering other lands.To us it was barbaric actions the subduing of entire cities and even burning them to total destruction. However, such task was necessary to avoid epidemic. You can't buried the dead bodies, then the best is to burn them.
Fire "purifies". In the case of Sodom, fire from heaven purified that area.
My experience of God consisted of 12 years of being tormented by frustrated homosexuals in habits before my Mom got sick and I prayed really hard for her to get better. She didn't. Pretty much done with God at that point in my life.
You have a good reason to be disappointed about God when you mother didn't get better.
But that is not related at all about your experience with frustrated homosexuals.
And frankly, if it weren't for IDIOTS like you trying to impose your bronze age superstitions on the rest of us, I could probably leave it at that.
God has never obligated anyone to obey him. Such is the personal decision of each individual.
Of course it is understood God will reward and will punish according to his judgement, but there is not any word in the scriptures about God obligating Adam or any of his descendants to obey him.
If any religious dude tries to impose any biblical doctrine on you, then such person himself is against God. God has never mandated to impose any doctrine, but solely to teach, to let people know about him and his word.