When I was asked to be a mod I was reluctant for that reason, the whiners are annoying no matter where you are or who they are. However, like the military is known for, punishing everyone for something some bad apples do will often result in more long term results and it sets an example at the same time. Keeps the fact that there are rules fresh in everyone's minds. We have few rules here, but sometimes we all need a reminder to follow them.
I mentioned recently that i consider myself a Newbie on this board, and you yourself are even newer by a good couple of years. However, I do remember what I consider the Bad Old Days, when this board was run by tyrants and tossers of the extreme conservative ilk. Then a new owner took over and most took flight (1: because the old owner, being a typical arsehole surreptitiously emailed everybody that he started a new board; and 2: the new owner turned out to be a total fucking Loser). So the board limped along until we got a series of reasonable owners, and somebody had the foresight to put Gunny in charge, and eventually the membership grew.
So now it's at a stage where most of the old crew, newer folks like me, and even newer folks like yourself, seem to be quite happy (I mean we all bitch and moan on the different threads depending our POV, but the general running of the place seems to be to everyone's general agreement). I would just hate to see things slipping down the slope due to the lowest common denominator.
I can see your POV of view with regard to the military analogy, but even when I was a kid and we all had to stay behind after the bell went due to one person's indiscretion, i always thought the rule sucked and sent the wrong message. Kowtowing to the few it not good policy IMO...telling the few to go fuck themselves is....