My choices? Do you think I have a choice in where my property tax goes?
You seem to understand the injustice in taking the fruit of your labor by threat of violence and using it in ways you don't necessarily agree with (or even have outright moral objections to). What I don't understand is why you continue to support such a system. I assume you also recognize that this is wrong as applied to others, even if their priorities differ from your own (in other words, it's equally wrong to force others to pay for those things that you deem important). Why do you abide this injustice? You always have a choice. You can choose to remove your support from this system where possible, and speak out against it; but so far you seem to be supporting the Republican party, which makes you an accomplice in these crimes. Wouldn't you rather be condoning true freedom and self-ownership? It seems that would be more in keeping with your values.
There are only two ways to vote in this country: Republican or Democrat. Voting on anybody or anything else is just throwing your vote away.
Since most of us will never find a person or party we totally agree with, the only thing you can do is vote as close as you can get to what you believe.
Why do I abide by this injustice? Because if I don't pay my taxes, they will see me in court. If I still refuse to pay my taxes, they will sue me out of house and home. Again, no choice in the matter.
I get it. When a bear in the woods indicates that he wants your sandwich, you should probably give it up, whether he has a right to it or not. But I don't agree that all you can do is vote. In fact, I view voting as a census taken by the controlling interests to see how many people still believe in the lie of their power. Same with most political activism; all it does is validate their authority by implying change must come by their command.
Voting is saying, "I condone this person ruling over me, my family, and my neighbors". I get the whole civics bit and the "representative" nonsense, but the bottom line is that they make law that you must obey or be punished. That's what rulers do to subjects. That's what masters do to slaves. Pulling a lever every 2-4 years and rotating them out every now and then doesn't change the nature of the relationship between the individual and that seat of power.
I see other options. You can remove your support in every way possible (without martyring yourself), especially in the public discourse. You can avoid taxation where feasible, you can stop voting, you can stop using government programs, or accepting anything paid for with tax dollars (again, where feasible), you can get them out of your head - and this last bit is the most important part. In the movie "Roots: The Next Generations", the character Kizzy saw her fiance begging at the feet of his master. She was disgusted and screamed at him, "When they bought your body, you threw in your soul for free!" That's what I'm talking about. You can assert your freedom in your own mind, exercise it where you can get away with it, and speak it to others at every opportunity.
The cultural consciousness
can change. It has changed, many times. If a significant minority (particularly military and police personnel) turns their back on government it will simply fade away through lack of support. I understand how seemingly impossible that is, but just think of the impossibilities man has achieved relative to any historical period of your choosing. In early 19th century America, the abolition of slavery was unthinkable. They thought the economy would collapse. Yet here we are. It may take time, but we can choose to be on the right side of history. Man is born free. He has unalienable rights. We can choose to accept no less than full recognition of this fact.