Advice for Single Women (about Men)

[Bonzi]

You want to see where you stand with a man? Don’t pay attention to how hot your date was.
Pay attention to how he handles himself in the next 24-48 hours.
Understand that unless he REALLY likes you, the second you leave, he’s thinking about how he can get out of this.

If he’s already planning his exit strategy, he’s not going to say, “I think we made a mistake. Good luck in life.” He’s more likely going to do something like this:
• A one-line text to follow up.
• A few days of silence afterwards because he doesn’t want you to get attached.
• Another text a few days later to say he’s thinking of you, but he’s been busy.
• A text a week later at 9pm to ask what you’re doing right now.
If there have been no phone calls or dates where he takes you out and spends quality time (and money) on you, guess what?
You’re the booty call.

 

[Mudda]

You want to see where you stand with a man? Don’t pay attention to how hot your date was.
Pay attention to how he handles himself in the next 24-48 hours.
Understand that unless he REALLY likes you, the second you leave, he’s thinking about how he can get out of this.

If he’s already planning his exit strategy, he’s not going to say, “I think we made a mistake. Good luck in life.” He’s more likely going to do something like this:
• A one-line text to follow up.
• A few days of silence afterwards because he doesn’t want you to get attached.
• Another text a few days later to say he’s thinking of you, but he’s been busy.
• A text a week later at 9pm to ask what you’re doing right now.
If there have been no phone calls or dates where he takes you out and spends quality time (and money) on you, guess what?
You’re the booty call.

Still holding a grudge? How many?

 

[Moonglow]

You want to see where you stand with a man? Don’t pay attention to how hot your date was.
Pay attention to how he handles himself in the next 24-48 hours.
Understand that unless he REALLY likes you, the second you leave, he’s thinking about how he can get out of this.

If he’s already planning his exit strategy, he’s not going to say, “I think we made a mistake. Good luck in life.” He’s more likely going to do something like this:
• A one-line text to follow up.
• A few days of silence afterwards because he doesn’t want you to get attached.
• Another text a few days later to say he’s thinking of you, but he’s been busy.
• A text a week later at 9pm to ask what you’re doing right now.
If there have been no phone calls or dates where he takes you out and spends quality time (and money) on you, guess what?
You’re the booty call.

Still holding a grudge? How many?

Several evidently since she has two threads on the subject....

 

[Bonzi]

You want to see where you stand with a man? Don’t pay attention to how hot your date was.
Pay attention to how he handles himself in the next 24-48 hours.
Understand that unless he REALLY likes you, the second you leave, he’s thinking about how he can get out of this.

If he’s already planning his exit strategy, he’s not going to say, “I think we made a mistake. Good luck in life.” He’s more likely going to do something like this:
• A one-line text to follow up.
• A few days of silence afterwards because he doesn’t want you to get attached.
• Another text a few days later to say he’s thinking of you, but he’s been busy.
• A text a week later at 9pm to ask what you’re doing right now.
If there have been no phone calls or dates where he takes you out and spends quality time (and money) on you, guess what?
You’re the booty call.

Still holding a grudge? How many?

Several evidently since she has two threads on the subject....

Everyone's a judge and a critic!

Instead of making assumptions, why not just ask?

 

[Bonzi]

You want to see where you stand with a man? Don’t pay attention to how hot your date was.
Pay attention to how he handles himself in the next 24-48 hours.
Understand that unless he REALLY likes you, the second you leave, he’s thinking about how he can get out of this.

If he’s already planning his exit strategy, he’s not going to say, “I think we made a mistake. Good luck in life.” He’s more likely going to do something like this:
• A one-line text to follow up.
• A few days of silence afterwards because he doesn’t want you to get attached.
• Another text a few days later to say he’s thinking of you, but he’s been busy.
• A text a week later at 9pm to ask what you’re doing right now.
If there have been no phone calls or dates where he takes you out and spends quality time (and money) on you, guess what?
You’re the booty call.

Still holding a grudge? How many?

I think there was probably only 2 guys that really put the screws (pardon the expression) to me.
I'm not angry about it, I consider them learning lessons. Of course, at the time I was pretty upset (dumb and naïve) - in any event, I'm married now so my dating days are over. I won't even continue to talk to people if I notice they have "undesirable" qualities (men or women) - and I mean in person - on line, I don't really care

I don't hold grudges. But I do think women need to be smart.......

 

[Moonglow]

You want to see where you stand with a man? Don’t pay attention to how hot your date was.
Pay attention to how he handles himself in the next 24-48 hours.
Understand that unless he REALLY likes you, the second you leave, he’s thinking about how he can get out of this.

If he’s already planning his exit strategy, he’s not going to say, “I think we made a mistake. Good luck in life.” He’s more likely going to do something like this:
• A one-line text to follow up.
• A few days of silence afterwards because he doesn’t want you to get attached.
• Another text a few days later to say he’s thinking of you, but he’s been busy.
• A text a week later at 9pm to ask what you’re doing right now.
If there have been no phone calls or dates where he takes you out and spends quality time (and money) on you, guess what?
You’re the booty call.

Still holding a grudge? How many?

Several evidently since she has two threads on the subject....

Everyone's a judge and a critic!

Instead of making assumptions, why not just ask?

Getting a straight answer out of you is like breaking your own leg and setting it.....

 

[Iceweasel]

I always waited a few days before calling back and I rarely thought 'I really want her' or 'I need to get out of this'. That's some pretty fast thinking. If a guy calls the next day the gal may very well think he's desperate. Or needy. Or whatever. I have had them give me the cold shoulder two days later when we parted on good terms. I just figured they were too infantile to get attached to.

 

[MisterBeale]

If you're married, I fail to see why you are so obsessed with dating and this topic. . .


Morally corrupt in my book.

 

[Bonzi]

If you're married, I fail to see why you are so obsessed with dating and this topic. . .


Morally corrupt in my book.

You're not the only one with this opinion....

I think a lot of women are stupid, that's why.....

 

[MisterBeale]

If you're married, I fail to see why you are so obsessed with dating and this topic. . .


Morally corrupt in my book.

You're not the only one with this opinion....

I think a lot of women are stupid, that's why.....

Ahhh. . .

I see. You're a paid poster.

I'm a bit slow sometimes. I didn't get that.

 

[Bonzi]

If you're married, I fail to see why you are so obsessed with dating and this topic. . .


Morally corrupt in my book.

You're not the only one with this opinion....

I think a lot of women are stupid, that's why.....

Ahhh. . .

I see. You're a paid poster.

I'm a bit slow sometimes. I didn't get that.

shit... I wish.... that would be my dream job

 

[Bonzi]

... and I see you didn't argue with my claim that women are stupid...
they are...
and men don't like it when I call them out
and women don't like it because they are stupid...

 

[MisterBeale]

If you're married, I fail to see why you are so obsessed with dating and this topic. . .


Morally corrupt in my book.

You're not the only one with this opinion....

I think a lot of women are stupid, that's why.....

Ahhh. . .

I see. You're a paid poster.

I'm a bit slow sometimes. I didn't get that.

shit... I wish.... that would be my dream job

Who do you think you are dealing with. First you say women are dumb, and then you pretend to be one of them? Like you have never used Google?

 

[Bonzi]

If you're married, I fail to see why you are so obsessed with dating and this topic. . .


Morally corrupt in my book.

You're not the only one with this opinion....

I think a lot of women are stupid, that's why.....

Ahhh. . .

I see. You're a paid poster.

I'm a bit slow sometimes. I didn't get that.

shit... I wish.... that would be my dream job

Who do you think you are dealing with. First you say women are dumb, and then you pretend to be one of them? Like you have never used Google?

Are you on drugs? Cause they seem to be pretty good ones.....
Um yes I do use Google from time to time.. your point? (I honestly don't think you have one....)

 

[MisterBeale]

If you're married, I fail to see why you are so obsessed with dating and this topic. . .


Morally corrupt in my book.

You're not the only one with this opinion....

I think a lot of women are stupid, that's why.....

Ahhh. . .

I see. You're a paid poster.

I'm a bit slow sometimes. I didn't get that.

shit... I wish.... that would be my dream job

Who do you think you are dealing with. First you say women are dumb, and then you pretend to be one of them? Like you have never used Google?

Are you on drugs? Cause they seem to be pretty good ones.....
Um yes I do use Google from time to time.. your point? (I honestly don't think you have one....)

. . . . sigh . . . Like they say, do what you love.

Let me google that for you

 

[Bonzi]

You're not the only one with this opinion....

I think a lot of women are stupid, that's why.....

Ahhh. . .

I see. You're a paid poster.

I'm a bit slow sometimes. I didn't get that.

shit... I wish.... that would be my dream job

Who do you think you are dealing with. First you say women are dumb, and then you pretend to be one of them? Like you have never used Google?

Are you on drugs? Cause they seem to be pretty good ones.....
Um yes I do use Google from time to time.. your point? (I honestly don't think you have one....)

. . . . sigh . . . Like they say, do what you love.

Let me google that for you

Oh you mean my OP? Yes I got that from a website... I guess I should have named my source. Like it matters..... what are you the USMB police??? sheesh!

 

[Bonzi]

Anyone reading this other than MisterBeale that gives a shit where I get the OP from on this particular thread, here it is....

www.evanmarckatz.com › Blog › Understanding Men

 

[MisterBeale]

It just came down to motivation.

I was just trying to figure out if you were a cheap filthy tramp that likes to cheat on your husband, if you have an unhappy marriage, or what the dealio is.

Why? Why do you care? That is the point. What on earth could motivate a women to care about dating and relationships if she is in a happy stable and fulfilling relationship? Men who are happy with their girl don't obsess over women unless they want to boink other girls. Seriously, we don't. If we are in love, we don't post shit like that, only slim balls do. So stay away from them. You're character is seriously questionable.


The old addage goes, "do what you love" when it comes to making a living. The other paid posters here post about what interest them. And the good ones are honest about it. There is no shame to the claim that you are a professional. I'd have more respect for you if you owned it, rather than slithering around on the net stirring up trouble.

Unless of course, your spouse knows what you do. Does he know you are a member here and know your user name? Would you have a problem with him knowing?



I get tired of women who think there shouldn't be a double standard for men and women. Guess what, there should be.

Men can't carry babies or breast feed. Mother nature has a double standards. Are you going to ***** and whine to the facts of nature now? Suck it up butter cup.

 

[Bonzi]

It just came down to motivation.

I was just trying to figure out if you were a cheap filthy tramp that likes to cheat on your husband, if you have an unhappy marriage, or what the dealio is.

Why? Why do you care? That is the point. What on earth could motivate a women to care about dating and relationships if she is in a happy stable and fulfilling relationship? Men who are happy with their girl don't obsess over women unless they want to boink other girls. Seriously, we don't. If we are in love, we don't post shit like that, only slim balls do. So stay away from them. You're character is seriously questionable.


The old addage goes, "do what you love" when it comes to making a living. The other paid posters here post about what interest them. And the good ones are honest about it. There is no shame to the claim that you are a professional. I'd have more respect for you if you owned it, rather than slithering around on the net stirring up trouble.

Unless of course, your spouse knows what you do. Does he know you are a member here and know your user name? Would you have a problem with him knowing?



I get tired of women who think there shouldn't be a double standard for men and women. Guess what, there should be.

Men can't carry babies or breast feed. Mother nature has a double standards. Are you going to ***** and whine to the facts of nature now? Suck it up butter cup.

N

No double standard here. My husband can do whatever he wants whenever he wants. He doesn’t have to report to me. He’s not my parent and I’m not his. What we agree on in our marriage is our business. If you want to know what I post and why I will tell you just like I have told others. If you choose not to believe me that is your business, and if you choose to tell me why you don’t believe me, I will answer that as well. Because, I have nothing to hide.
I don’t get paid to post. I post because I love to post.
Any other questions or challenges?

 

[iamwhatiseem]

hmm...I'm thinkin good advice to women about men should come from...men...