He was a politician. In the end the words mean very little. The actions are what counts. You try to place more importance on his words than his actual actions. You are placing greater importance on what he said and other place more importance on what he did. Everyday we read and hear about politicians changing their minds, flip flopping and evolving. Why is a Trump not responsible for the things he has said, but Lincoln has to be held to account for every letter or speech he ever made?
There is no doubt he was a dishonorable, lying POS politician...that was never in question..In your mind politicians lying are normal and acceptable...I disagree..
His actions were to attack fellow americans who tried to peacefully and legally withdraw from the union. He unleashed fed. troops to murder, rape and rob fellow americans, steal their belongings, burn their homes and businesses, wreck the infrastructure, seize their property and then "re distribute" it.
If your wife asks for a divorce, do you think it would be ok to beat her and force her to stay?
Millions of southern families lost everything in the war of northern aggression and millions of their descendants haven't forgotten.