Why would anyone care if someone else marries someone of the same sex?
What possible difference could it make to you?
I am a newbie here and a Libertarian on most issues. But, I want to play the devil's advocate here for a moment.
According to the law, marriage is a Right. Also, by law, marriage is defined in legal dictionaries as a union between one man and one woman. Yet, virtually everybody that wants to be married goes to the government and obtains a marriage license in order to get married.
Why do so many people forfeit a Right and seek out a license in order to get married? Licenses are permission from a governmental entity to do that which is otherwise illegal to do. Look it up in a
legal dictionary.
You don't go to the government and say you want to join the XYZ church, do you? Why? You have Freedom of Religion. So, if you have a Right to marry, why ask the government's permission?
The answer to the poster's question is simple:
America was founded as a Christian nation, NOT as a theocracy, but a nation founded on Christian principles. Any gay couple can go to the church that agrees with gay marriage; they could do a name change in court to have the same last name and the rest of us would be none the wiser. They would be "married."
The real reason this practice threatens us is that it requires us to validate gay marriage. People want into the arrangement, NOT because they lack a Right to get married, but for the benefits. Aside from wanting to change the definition of marriage, the gays want benefits... benefits that most of us feel we're compelled to be a part of whether we like it or not.
For example, we
must pay for public schools. So, many parents use the schools and send their children there. But, although they pay for the schools, even a majority of the parents have little say in WHO teaches their children or what they are taught. Gay marriage means that people you wholly disagree with will teach your children.
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To compel a man to subsidize with his taxes the propagation of ideas which he disbelieves and abhors is sinful and tyrannical.” –Thomas Jefferson
Maybe people simply do not want to submit to a yoke of slavery. If the gays were not getting married primarily for the benefits of marriage that society offers to a man and a woman, gay marriage would be an easier sell.
The gays want us to be forced into accepting their lifestyle AND be forced into participating in it. You'll help provide them a job; help subsidize their medical care via insurance premiums, etc. You do not have a choice. OTOH, they can live together, go through a ceremony, change their names and live as a "married" couple without the validation of the public.