Keep telling myself what? That Trump won the election because Republicans are more dispersed? It's true. Hillary got more votes. But since states elect the president and not a nationwide popular vote and because Republicans are more dispersed, Trump won.
And you seem to be oblivious to the reality that politics in the U.S. is like a pendulum. While it's swinging to the right now, it will next swing back to the left.
Clinton was playing checkers while Trump played chess
he ignored California & New York (2 states that account for the PV margin)
yes, the pendulum has swung, but only because the economy has deteriorated under democrat stewardship
Clint ignored Wiscy & Michigan - felt she had those states in the bag
and everyone missed just how deep seeded the angst in Penn was (is)
if the economy were strong (as you seem convinced that it is) - Hillary would have won handily
it's not & she didn't
it's going to be really fun for the next 8 years with President Trump!