ChrisL
Diamond Member
Men are easy to attract.
Women, not so much
That's life
LET'S FACE FACTS:
Men are easy to attract:
Yes, because men's needs are basic, those few that other guys or he himself cannot provide, and when a man seeks a woman, his interests are:
Score well on at least TWO of those, and you are probably in like flint.
- Is she attractive?
- Personality?
- Interests?
- Good in bed?
- Great cooker and cleaner?
Women, not so much:
Yes, because woman's needs are complex and on many levels, ever changing, and when a woman seeks a man, her interests are:
The more in these categories he fulfills, the better your chances of being "invited in," that is, until she gets bored, her hormones change, he stops fawning over her every whim or she finds a bigger dick.
- Is he attractive?
- Personality?
- Good In Bed?
- Money?
- Good career?
- Good Provider?
- House?
- Kids and Family?
- Does he listen to me?
- Family Man?
- Gentleman?
- Possessions (Homes, cars, boats, jewelry, clothes).
- Lifestyle?
- Freedom to come and go and do your own thing?
- Maid and Housekeeper?
- Travel?
- Food?
It's always strange to me when men think they know what women want or look for .
Or that all women are the same person and are all looking for the same things. I am just STUNNED at the maturity level of "older men" on this forum. It is like . . . . a caricature or something. Lol!
I was stunned too when I first noticed this pattern of men online and the attitude. But also when that one boy wrote a manifesto and shot a bunch of people a few years back because he was rejected by pretty girls. I thought Holy shit why is it a woman's responsibility to make him not feel rejected. His whole thing was "pretty girls" So his complaint was not that all girls didn't want him it was pretty girls didn't want him. Somehow he felt an entitlement and he outlined the kind of girl it had to be and blamed them for not wanting him. In my opinion, he was extremely selfish and made it all about someone meeting his needs in exactly the way he felt he deserved. So weird that there are men who think this.
I do sweet and thoughtful things for my boyfriend because I want to because he is my best friend and because I like to be kind. He also does the same for me. Neither of us feel like it's some expectation we appreciate each other
So true, drifter. I couldn't have said it better myself.