Againsheila
Gold Member
No, because women only come in individual, one-person units, which means they can't do as much as two people can. We call that "mathematics". Not only that, children are PRODUCED by two people, and need and deserve both their progenitors in their lives. And third, women are . . . wait for it . . . WOMEN, which means they have jack shit to teach children about relating to males, let alone being males. Duhh.
Having done both the single mom and married mom thing, I can state categorically that anyone who thinks children needing and deserving both parents is just about "taking the mother's autonomy" is a complete and utter dumbfuck who would do their own children a favor by not having them.
I have to disagree.. If it werent for women with strong boundaries and rules, men would not exist..
They would just be males, trapped in some freakish 14 year old mindset..
Learning how to be a man does not require brawn or beard.. it only requires a good, solid, anthropological understanding of the male gender.
There are just as many men out there as there are women who do not know how to change a tire, rebuild a carburator, throw a long pass with the football, or slam dunk a basketball.. and many of them are considered just as manly and virile as many of those dumb jocks are, who incidentally, can't balance a checkbook or keep a hobby that does not involve getting sweaty and dirty..
Families that have rigid gender roles are one of society's PROBLEMS. If we are to raise our boys into being extraordinary men, then we need to drop the neanderthalic bullshit and teach them to be contributing citizens of the world, rather than just forcing them to fit some freaky mold, and turning them into robots..
My own son made me the coolest birthday present... He cut patterns of fabric out, and sewed me a beautiful snowman quilt.. Its only about the size of a baby blanket, but it was really nice and he put a lot of effort into it. I didn't even teach him.. He asked my neighbor to teach him how to quilt and sew, after seeing some quilts that looked really cool to him.
And no- my son is not GAY, so don't go there. He has had a couple of girlfriends already, and one time, I even caught him with a "stuff" magazine, where he cut out the pictures of the girls (who were in their underwear- yeah I confiscated the whole kit and kaboodle) and pasted them into his own little girly magazine, complete with captions. He also took some of the girls pictures and taped them to his wall.
Oh and when we used to go to hooters, when he was small, he would shake his chest at the girls, and stare at their tits, and the servers would all come over and shake their jugs for him, LMAO!!!! I made him stop acting like that when he was like 5, though.. lol Little brat.. hahaha Cute brat, though.. MY brat.. No dad needed.
Curious why you had to pronounce he isn't gay? As for confiscating his Stuff kit n' kaboodle......that was cruel!!
I more curious as to why she felt the need to take a 5 year old to "hooters"????
I've never been myself....is the food that good?