Very true. The problem in my case being that what I'm seeking is much more of a traditional type relationship than most modern women are seeking, which adds a second strike against me, for most of them.
I do understand where you are coming from. Women I know, will go to bed with a guy fast! These are women looking for permanence. I tell them they are working against themselves.
Ahh the theory of the golden pussy ? Make them work for it and commit before any sex ?
Might be nice in theory.
It actually WORKS in reality, if the guy is a decent and "real man." He respects a woman more when he feels like she isn't ready until she is ready. In other words, it isn't for the game; it IS for real.