When men don’t want sex

[Anachronism]

Thank you......

You're welcome.

I think it was, yes.

What she expected or her loss?

 

[Cecilie1200]

Thank you......

You're welcome.

I think it was, yes.

What she expected or her loss?

Both, actually.

 

[Lumpy 1]

"When men don't want sex"

When the woman has more hair on her body than I do. OR she smells like the incense from an old hippy head shop.

You're the picky one, ain't ya.

Ya probably. I've turned down more requests for sex than most guys ever had the chance to. Maybe I've just been spoiled on great sex with very desirable women. It's hard to count up the times but I've likely nixed intercourse probably a thousand times in the last 50 years and participated willingly something like 5-6 times that number.

So go ahead..call me a slut! BUT I'm a selective one!

5 to 6 thousand women......

You SLUT......

 

[HUGGY]

You're the picky one, ain't ya.

Ya probably. I've turned down more requests for sex than most guys ever had the chance to. Maybe I've just been spoiled on great sex with very desirable women. It's hard to count up the times but I've likely nixed intercourse probably a thousand times in the last 50 years and participated willingly something like 5-6 times that number.

So go ahead..call me a slut! BUT I'm a selective one!

5 to 6 thousand women......

You SLUT......

Naw...only about a thousand...ya gotta slow down and take some time with a few of them.

 

[spectrumc01]

When men don't want sex???????

is that even possible?

 

[Lumpy 1]

Ya probably. I've turned down more requests for sex than most guys ever had the chance to. Maybe I've just been spoiled on great sex with very desirable women. It's hard to count up the times but I've likely nixed intercourse probably a thousand times in the last 50 years and participated willingly something like 5-6 times that number.

So go ahead..call me a slut! BUT I'm a selective one!

5 to 6 thousand women......

You SLUT......

Naw...only about a thousand...ya gotta slow down and take some time with a few of them.

I'm thinking you have a problem with commitment...Duh...

 

[Momanohedhunter]

is the main reason.

Porn. The Internet has made porn much more accessible - and the frequent masturbation it triggers may be making men too worn out for sex with a real partner. As I’ve discussed before in this blog, men are masturbating 50 to 500 percent more than they would normally without Internet porn. So if a guy normally masturbated once a day, he might now be doing it two or three times a day. If he masturbated three times a week, he might now be getting graphic with his graphics 15 times a week. If you’re 17 and single, this might not be a problem.


But if you’re 40 and toting a gut, it’s an issue - a real issue. Some guys may still feel mentally like they’re 17 years old, but they can’t have sex that way. Their bodies have changed and so have their refractory periods, the natural interval between erections. Guys with low desire may simply lack the mojo for real sex because they’re depleted from masturbation.

STOP JERKING OFF DAMNIT!!!

I like sex more then porn. Those are crazy numbers.

 

[Lumpy 1]

is the main reason.

Porn. The Internet has made porn much more accessible - and the frequent masturbation it triggers may be making men too worn out for sex with a real partner. As I’ve discussed before in this blog, men are masturbating 50 to 500 percent more than they would normally without Internet porn. So if a guy normally masturbated once a day, he might now be doing it two or three times a day. If he masturbated three times a week, he might now be getting graphic with his graphics 15 times a week. If you’re 17 and single, this might not be a problem.


But if you’re 40 and toting a gut, it’s an issue - a real issue. Some guys may still feel mentally like they’re 17 years old, but they can’t have sex that way. Their bodies have changed and so have their refractory periods, the natural interval between erections. Guys with low desire may simply lack the mojo for real sex because they’re depleted from masturbation.

STOP JERKING OFF DAMNIT!!!

I like sex more then porn. Those are crazy numbers.

I think porn is comical.. just sayin

 

[Momanohedhunter]

is the main reason.




STOP JERKING OFF DAMNIT!!!

I like sex more then porn. Those are crazy numbers.

I think porn is comical.. just sayin

Porn is indeed funny.

 

[Barb]

The problem is that what we are socialized to believe vs. the actual realities of human sexuality are very different things:

Women are obsessed with sex, though 'sex' is much more than just copulation to a women. Society socializes women to defy their true sex drive.

Men however are not quite as obsessed with sex as we are made to believe. Society promotes sexuality in men in order to get them to be more 'animalistic'.

Now, when men are young they are sexually repressed, and therefore sexually obsessed - basically young men will do just about anything for sex. However, as men get more experience with sex they become less obsessed with sex and more desirous of relationships - their 'paternal instinct' (i.e. desire for love) kicks in. They become selective.

Meanwhile, women are ever more cravenous of sex as they gain experience - this is only throttled by their intense instinctive desire to birth and provide a safe 'nest'. The desire for relationships by women is only because of the reality that wild sex lives are contradictory to providing a safe 'nest' in a modern soceity.

Meanwhile, men reduce their sex drives thru masterbation as a defensive mechanism - women will use a man's sex drive against him.

So for a mature intelligent responsible man, selectivity in sexual relationships is not only normal and healthy - it's plain smart. Of course sexual rejection outrages women - it means that they lose control - it means that they have to put more into a relationship than just sex - it defies their tendancy to use sex for dictatorial control of the relationship.

Of course there are a majority of men who are neither mature, intelligent or responsible and who are just too plain stupid to realize how much women take advantage of them - they protect themselves psychologically thru chauvanism.

The question is not, "Is she a witch?" Of course she is a witch, she's a woman, and any woman worth her salt is a witch. The question needs to be, "Is she a good witch or a bad witch?"

One thing though, for women, it is not "all about control," although for some of us, a different type of that than you meant can be an interesting thought too. Women seek pleasure for reasons just as basic, physical, and chemical, that men do.

 

[Phoenix]

Can I watch TV, or read the paper?

NASCAR, darlin'.

 

[HUGGY]

5 to 6 thousand women......

You SLUT......

Naw...only about a thousand...ya gotta slow down and take some time with a few of them.

I'm thinking you have a problem with commitment...Duh...

Ya think? I've been with about three for close to five years each. Faithful to one? Maybe for a month. It's hard to turn down good pussy. I can't say I often went out looking specifically to get laid but it just seemed to happen a lot. I wasn't even safe when I was a married mailman right out of high school. Women would set sex traps for me if they thought I was ahead on my mail route. It's their fault!!! The harlots just kept throwing that pussy in my face!!! What was I supposed to do??? They are sneaky!!! They know just what to do to make ya want em...for a little while anyway.

 

[Lumpy 1]

Naw...only about a thousand...ya gotta slow down and take some time with a few of them.

I'm thinking you have a problem with commitment...Duh...

Ya think? I've been with about three for close to five years each. Faithful to one? Maybe for a month. It's hard to turn down good pussy. I can't say I often went out looking specifically to get laid but it just seemed to happen a lot. I wasn't even safe when I was a married mailman right out of high school. Women would set sex traps for me if they though I was ahead on my mail route. It's their fault!!! The harlots just kept throwing that pussy in my face!!! What was I supposed to do??? They are sneaky!!! They know just what to do to make ya want em...for a little while anyway.

I always wanted to be married and be a father but I also wanted to, "sew the oats", which I did. Those were wild times and enjoyed them to the fullest... Thousand no but hundreds easy...I kinda pursued the bitchy good looking ones, no quilt when I dropped them..

 

[HUGGY]

I'm thinking you have a problem with commitment...Duh...

Ya think? I've been with about three for close to five years each. Faithful to one? Maybe for a month. It's hard to turn down good pussy. I can't say I often went out looking specifically to get laid but it just seemed to happen a lot. I wasn't even safe when I was a married mailman right out of high school. Women would set sex traps for me if they though I was ahead on my mail route. It's their fault!!! The harlots just kept throwing that pussy in my face!!! What was I supposed to do??? They are sneaky!!! They know just what to do to make ya want em...for a little while anyway.

I also wanted to be married and be a father but I also wanted to, "sew the oats", which I did. Those were wild times and enjoyed them to the fullest... Thousand no but hundreds easy...I kinda pursued the bitchy good looking ones, no quilt when I dropped them..

You're the man Lumpy!! I just knew it!!!

 

[Lumpy 1]

Ya think? I've been with about three for close to five years each. Faithful to one? Maybe for a month. It's hard to turn down good pussy. I can't say I often went out looking specifically to get laid but it just seemed to happen a lot. I wasn't even safe when I was a married mailman right out of high school. Women would set sex traps for me if they though I was ahead on my mail route. It's their fault!!! The harlots just kept throwing that pussy in my face!!! What was I supposed to do??? They are sneaky!!! They know just what to do to make ya want em...for a little while anyway.

I also wanted to be married and be a father but I also wanted to, "sew the oats", which I did. Those were wild times and enjoyed them to the fullest... Thousand no but hundreds easy...I kinda pursued the bitchy good looking ones, no quilt when I dropped them..

You're the man Lumpy!! I just knew it!!!

I loved the hunt... but we played it differently... We should exchange stories sometime about the ladies in their prime...

. I think we both know what the others only dream about....

 

[Big Black Dog]

This is one of those "joke" threads, right?

 

[Lumpy 1]

This is one of those "joke" threads, right?

Hey.. aren't you up past your bedtime... Skippy...

 

[strollingbones]

"When men don't want sex"

When the woman has more hair on her body than I do. OR she smells like the incense from an old hippy head shop.

You're the picky one, ain't ya.

Ya probably. I've turned down more requests for sex than most guys ever had the chance to. Maybe I've just been spoiled on great sex with very desirable women. It's hard to count up the times but I've likely nixed intercourse probably a thousand times in the last 50 years and participated willingly something like 5-6 times that number.

So go ahead..call me a slut! BUT I'm a selective one!

your eyes are brown, eh?

 

[strollingbones]

and yall need to overcome this....got to be married to fuck.....that is the reason for the high divorce rate....marriage

 

[Toro]

I will tell you that it can be very interesting to see the reaction of a woman when you tell her that you're not interested in having sex with her at that time.

Several years ago I dated a lady who invited me into her home after our third date. We sat around for a while in her living room talking. At which point she looked over at me and asked, quite directly... "Well, are you going to make a move on me or not?" I informed her that No, I was not intending on making "a move" on her that evening.

She was rather shocked and demanded to know why. I told her the same thing that I'd told her the first time sex had even come up, during our second date.... I don't believe casual sex is appropriate and don't engage in it. Sex is for long-term, committed relationships so far as I'm concerned.

The look of shock on her face was almost as if I'd told her that I didn't have a penis, or something to that effect. She all but bodily threw me out of her condo and told me that she didn't want to ever hear from or see me again, which at that point was fine with me.

What's her phone number?